Director Hong Sang Soo’s Wife Refuses Third Divorce Petition and Still Wants Husband Back from Kim Min Hee

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• I know that if I was the wife I will give him a divorce but will probably will take all I can in terms of assets as law permits and start a new life with ny head held high. I would not want him back at any cost. But that is just me and I cant judge wife for wanting her husband back, hope that at the end all party involved in this drama can find some resolution.

  • Yes.. I totally agree!!

  • I think she's just making things difficult for the two. She got nothing to lose. He denied his only daughter support, he declared publicly his adulterers n love. If im the wife i'll do the same .. make him suffer for not being responsible to his daughter n for not respecting marriege and the wife n daughter. He can just hide his relationship until their divorce is final but no he chose to insult his family. Serves him right.

    • He didn't deny his daughter support...that was a fabricated rumor...he also discussed divorce before all this scandal blown away...and the wife is the one who blow it by sharing yext messages between her and Min Hee's mother as ptoof.
      I don't support adultery but I know that you can't keep another person with force...once his heart has gone...its the end...not to mention they have a daughter in collage now...continuing this mess is only hurting her...
      I find the wife is just as selfish as him.

    • sorry for writing mistakes...my phone is wierd ^^

    • I don't think the wife is as selfish as him. He is the one who wants a divorce, why would she grant it if she does not want one? He has a problem, not her... Yes, you cannot keep a person with force, he has already left. But to ask her to sign a paper that she does not want, this is too much to ask of her. They agreed to get married, and when he wants out, why does she have to comply?? does that mean she is selfish? She is not the one who ask for it in the first place! Didn't he say his Oath at the wedding? I believe a woman should stick to her belief and desire, and not to give in if she disagrees.

• Maybe he has no real assets to give up, other than his reputation. So by publically shaming him and his mistress, she gets what she wants which is to ruin their careers...if you break rice bowl or in western terms empty the wallet, eventually even the most passionate relationship will fizzle out.

  • i like your rice bowl analogy, ha.

• I was starting to think the wife had no self-respect, but after this latest snub, I'm kinda rooting for her.

• Director Hong Sang Soo will pay the highest price - he will loose everything. He's foolishly living a life of a drama...hope this is worth it for him.

• The wife has already lost the heart of her husband, why let him have everything when she claims she is suffering? HSS is a very selfish bastard, cut out support for his daughter's education, and publically exposing his shameless desire to be with a younger woman. He'd better stop showing off and give the wife some respect, the more he pushes, the more she will resist!

• i cry for his wife and i understand her feelings but if a man doesnt want you and you force him to come back to you,you will never be happy and everything you do will not satisfy him, there will be constant fights and there will be no peace in the household.
  love dies and marrying someone doesnt mean you can force to be with you each other forever esp. when you marry a man with no conscience like hong sang soo.except the case when the couple is very religious and they decide to comply with their belief for example roman catholic which forbid divorce.
  what the wife should do is collect a fat alimony and leave everything to God esp.since her daughter is an adult.love can strike twice for her too.
  to kim min hee, i will say i am dissapointed in her and she should not blame anyone for its repercussions now and later.this is the reason why actresses should never admit dating in public in korea.the men esp.the actors simply dont marry actresses with past dating scandals ,you can check the married actors and verify.also actresses need to swallow their pride and
  reduce their high standard in men to be able to get married since most of them are rich anyway.
  with regard to hong sang soo, he is in cloud nine and living the dream of most men but beware kmh can also ditch you when you are very old and vulnerable.he will still have his career since korea is bias towards men.you hurt and humilaite your daughter and wife of many years and for what?he should never regret in future.

  • I have nothing to comment since this is a very complicated affairs. All 3 of them have their own fair share to blame and reason for whatever they are doing.

    But what really intrigued my curiosity is the extend that Kim Min Hee is willing to go and jeopardize her career and reputation for this man. She came a long way to establish herself as one of the most talented actresses in Korea and with this scandal and at the rate that she is going, she does not seem to mind to lose everything just to be with him. I really wonder why?

  • Seriously the Wife has nothing to lose and while he everything. She probably didn't want to let him off so easily and so is making things difficult for him. The point is not to want him back but to creatr obstacles in their way. Perhaps she also hopes that KMH will leave him so in the end he gets nothing. I can understand her objective. Regardless if he stays with his Wife or not, the responsibilities of a Father never ends. To know he is stopping sponsoring his daughter's education is unacceptable. We are parents for life, not when it fits them.

• We're the outsider so we dont know the whole story. Publicly flaunting your love for each other for all to see photo n document is not the way to get your wife to sign the divorce papers for sure. Hope this saga gets to be resolved more amicably.. if that's even possible for them

  • I actually think it is because of the other failed attempts to proceed with the divorce that they openly started being together as a couple. It actually sounds like he tried to quietly divorce and it was a no go so they tried this route...isn't working either but sounds like the courts will allow him to proceed. It's a mess and I sympathize, but I don't believe in trapping people in a marriage they no longer want. It's not healthy for anyone.

    • I think you can never know what happens between couples. How did they choose to show their love to each other over years? I was married for ten years before my wife left me. Neither of us showed love at the end, but we put a great front for others. Everyone was shocked at divorce. We have no idea what they are going through. I feel huge sadness for all of them.

• well she old so if i were her i would not want him to get a young wife too. she waste her young life with this sob. she need to sue him for adultery so he lost his money

• The had thirty years together. They have been together since their twenties. It sucks that it will not take them to their graves but life is tough and unfair. Lots of women get betrayed and lots of men get betrayed. What makes this wife so special that it can't happen to her? If he is gonna come back to her what is the difference between holding on or divorcing him?

  Honesty the way the wife is acting makes me see why the marriage was over for him. She has to move on and find her own life. Another person can't be yours. You have to accept it and move on. Even if he has cheated and comeback before even if he has been her best friend, what matters is that he wants out now. This is not about KMH. This is a fight between two people and one is holding on too long.

  • This is about KMH also, she is having an affair with the married man and showing off about it.

    The wife and the kids are the victims, the director and the actress are the adulterer and flaunting it. I guess KMH is fine with wearing the "Scarlett Letter" A proudly. Either way, what KMH and the Director did was wrong and wrong. What the wife is doing now is understandable. The guy probably never gave an outright answer to the wife. The wife shouldn't just give the guy what ever he wants because of a new starlett...however, Karma has a way of coming back and biting hard...KMH and the Director will get their just desserts, no affairs ever ended well. Once the Director is done playing with KMH, he will also betray her just as he did with his wife of 30 years. If a man can turn his back on the wife and daughter, he is selfish and only cares for himself.

    • "no affairs ever ended well"....I would like to think that is true, but I've known several couples who are in happy marriages that started with one or both parties cheating on their spouse(s). However, I know of a lot more of these situations where the cheating relationship floundered and didn't go anywhere post divorce so it is a roll of the dice and just causes so much pain.

  • Nope. Hold on to him. Even if the love is no longer there. For korea,and being in her 50s. No chance she will find someone else. At least holding out KMH will never be able to assume the official MRS title. She will be an adulterers and mistress all the days she stays in the relationship. This is the best way to punish her. She will never be able to hold her head high in public. You can take the man and his heart all you want but you can never but back integrity. Good decision on the wife's part. Till the day she dies she remains Mrs Hong.

  • I'm with you on this. Of course this woman needs a fair compensation since she has dedicated her life to the family and now she could be left with nothing. He also needs to take responsibility regarding his daughter.
    But the marriage? You cannot force a person to live with you and to love you, and the more you try to force them the more they will hate you. Nowadays people live much longer life than just decades ago, marriage for life will become a not so common arrangement and it's ok since people should be free. Of course they need to pay for economical responsibilities, but for cheating...it is difficult to define the limits. Anyway, why would you want to share your life with someone that wants to be as far from you as possible?
    This guy is asking for the divorce and she is saying no, which means that for her is not about to negotiate better terms for her and the daughter, but to make him suffer. This will not help anyone. She is going to waste her time and damage her health because she wants vengeance. The guy might be a jerk, but I wonder what could have happened if he asked for divorce before starting any affair, my bet is that she wouldn't have agreed either...
    Don't misunderstand me, I know the wife is the first victim. But she should fight for the money and let the old jerk go..so KMH can put up with him and she can find a better partner.

• The longer the wife holds on the longer it will take for her to move on