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Marry Him If You Dare Episode 2 Recap — 64 Comments

    • Second lead syndrome is such a hard place to be. BUt I get you, YongHwa’s character is just so winning, a chaebol who is not arrogant and overbearing and who seems to know to fight for love even with social clashes and all. It’s really winning.

      And I would have been with you also, just that it’s Lee Dong Gun back after 5 years. other stars like Jo In Sung, Gong Yoo, OS Jisub were away for 2-3 years due to military service but with Lee Dong Gun having gun 5 years this would be like he was gone for 2 military service terms. So I’m all for Kim Shin, arrogant bastard that he is just because its Lee Dong Gun.
      Koala has mentioned that he is intense and just leaping off the screen, that is true. Drama gods are amazing to give me back Lee Dong Gun hotter, more intense, smexier, and ohhhh so Good. He has not even bared any abs yet, which I can see with my Xray eyes underneath that hot suit he is wearing — Sexy chocolate abs.
      Lee dong Gun in all his abrasive, arrogant, doubtful, self preserved, principled, irritated and amazing self.
      HE IS BACK!!!

      • This is my text convo with lizzyD two weeks ago:

        Lizzy: Hey! I need warnings! (referring to the hot pic of LDG I posted here). Droooool.

        Me: Drool to infinity.

        Lizzy: I can’t stand it! He is so hot. Damn lazy hot man for making no dramas for 5 years..

        Me: Indeed. Or he waited so he could make out with YEH.

        LEE DONG GUN IS BACK~!

      • hahaha what a dilemma. I heard of LDG before but I never seen his dramas so it doesn’t have the same effect on me. but he is good looking, i give u that haha. maybe as the show progress, the writer can write his character in a way where i can jump aboard his character 😉

      • @koala, hahaha I know. HE IS BACK! kinda makes me giddy and gooey inside. and yes his droolable, drool worthy, just Drool… hahahahaha…

        @ya on, I guess he really has been gone long, 5 years is like 20 years to the entertainment industry. But let me just say that LEE DONG GUN started the second lead syndrome for me back with Lover in Paris.

        But I just want to celebrate, confetti and fireworks all around. He is BACK!!

  1. It’s probably just me, but the first 2 episodes is making me root for Mirae and Seju, more than Kim Shin and Mirae. Over-all, the drama is satisfying yet leaving you wanting for more. I’d say it’s a great first week for MHIYD!

    • You’re definitely not the only one. I think Shin’s character will become more fleshed out in future episodes so hopefully that will win more viewers to his side 🙂

    • You’re absolutely not the only one.
      As the end OTP, i will prefer kim shin and mirae, but atm, the writer is doing a darn job at having us root for second lead.
      Don’t know how this is at all possible, since i was ready to ignore/FF yonghwa scenes. I dont think his portrayal is as good as lee dong gun’s portrayal of his character, but quite simply, the character of se joo and his interactions with mi-rae are so sweet i cant help but ship them.

      • Waaah! I am loving Se Joo sooooo very much right now. He is what MiRae needs to heal, step up and grow. They are so sweet together.

        And when Kim Shin threw water on her face -uuurrrgh!! What kind of a man are you??? You would do that to a lady???

        Sorry, I have now boarded on the Se Joo train!!! Bye bye Kim Shin.

  2. Years of drama watching has taught me that being a Nice Guy (TM) gets you nowhere. I think Se Joo is cool but… c’mon, we know he’s not going to get the girl. I’m interested in seeing how he finds happiness with his original love Yoo Kyung in spite of future Na Mi Rae.

    • Yeah, sadly. Lol! But I’m really liking Jung Yong Hwa’s take on this dual-personality thing he has, chaebol/undecover VJ. I like the fact that both personalities are charming but in different, contrasting ways. This is really a pleasant surprise from him.

  3. What is this?

    They married, they were happy, however Kim Shin didn’t get his anchor spot like he wanted, and his jobs kept going down, leaving him to be depressed and an ass to MR, and maybe this made their marriage unhappy…and it lead to MR try to kill herself? Because Future MR did say ”why would you do it again” when she thought young MR went to kill herself in the sea. Makes me think she tried to kill herself in the future because she was too unhappy with her life and her unhappy marriage.

    I somehow think it is all due to misunderstading, and when she comes back she might find out he does cares and loves her but she didn’t know because they didn’t talk.

    It must be this, because who would KS kill, their daughter? What text Future MR is talking about? Did their daughter kill herself and sent a text before doing it but KS didn’t reply/didn’t pay attention?

    Or did future MR sent a text to him telling him she was going to kill herself and he didn’t come and she did attempt suicide but survived and decided to come back? Decided KS killed herself and she has to stop them from marrying…

    Does future Shin have alzheimer? Like they hinted on episode 1? Shin did say ”Unless I have alzheimer I’ll…” is it a hint from the writer?

    So many options.

    Does future MR died and had this chance to go back and fix things, only that she is doing it the wrong way?

    If she doesn’t want MR to be unhappy, why not tell what is their future problem and make them work their marriage on this time?

  4. The one who died because of Shin is their daugther and also future Mirae doesn’t like Yoo because she will have an affair with Shin. At least is what i think.

    • Future Mirae seems to have this huge dislike towards Yookyung, she keep calling her ‘ this bitch’. so perhaps shin might be involved with Yookyung at one point in the future
      and i think that’s how future mirae might knows about Seju. she see him as a nice good-natured successful chaebol

  5. Excited to read your recap and watch the show! Looks like the person that was “killed” is a she and that it could possibly be Mi Rae. I say “killed” because I don’t think Mi Rae physically died but rather died emotionally and mentally due to some actions of Shin. Maybe Mi Rae turned into a character who is very opposite to what she is like now? Maybe she almost lost her passion, ambition, guts and whatever because of Shin’s selfish ambition and determination? Whatever it is I am looking forward to seeing (and reading) what happened that made Future Mi Rae so determined to change the past.

  6. Shin is such a righteous ass, lol he has 0 social skills and always wants things to be his way
    but i can relate to him as there’s people like him in reality
    YEH actually has great chemistry with both guys, i’m happy with that
    i think Mirae’s oppa is the one who got killed by Shin ( figuratively or literally) and it seems that Mirae-Shin marriage is not all happy as ahjumma Mirae keep saying how selfish Shin can be
    i’m pleasantly surprised with Yonghwa as Seju. i like his character and his acting is not awkward at all. it’s a bonus when he’s such an eye candy

    • I also have a feeling, its his older brother that Shin “killed”. Noticed that future Mi Rae was so shaken the 1st time she saw her oppa and the words “I am sorry” in the window/chart.

  7. I cannot wait for the subs. Thank you for the recaps, especially their speed.

    I think Shin and Mi Rae had a daughter and through a lack of attention on Shin’s part, the daughter died. But I don’t know how the emotional reaction to Oppa fits in nor the relationship of the other couple…hm

  8. Okay, I’m also firmly on the Shin/Mirae ship. Se Joo is kind of typical rich nice guy, yeah her fate might be good if she marries him but it’s just kind of boring. He’s not particularly interesting in any way and Yonghwa has moments of really awkward acting that detract from the character. So I’m not in any way torn between the two. The more future Mirae tries to keep Mirae and Shin apart the more I want to see them together.

    Future Mirae is obviously not talking literally now. Shin did not literally kill someone she loves. I don’t think it’s her brother either, but she might feel regret because of him in some way. So whether it’s her or someone else, who knows. There is definitely something else going on and the whole truth isn’t out. I can’t wait to see what it is.

    I’m really leaning towards Shin not being as bad as Future Mirae believes and some giant misunderstanding and/or she’s blaming him when she’s not totally innocent either. She definitely still has love for him and feels regret for what she’s doing, so it’s not so black and white as he’s a giant asshole who ruined her life.

    • Typical rich nice guy is rare in K-dramas, actually. It’s almost always the case of rich-arrogant-full of himself chaebol falling for poor damsel in distress. Not to mention, that the rich nice guy is just one of the two characters Seju (JYH) has. This makes his character interesting, at least for me.

      • Well, obviously opinions differ but I’m not jumping ships anytime soon lol. Yes, he’s rare in that he’s NICE and rich, but he’s still mostly a typical nice guy. You know he’s going to be nice and do the right things and always be there for her, so it’s not all that exciting to watch. Though I am LDG biased I’ll admit. 😀

      • Nice and rich makes things worse. He’s the perfect catch with open arms for our poor, hardworking leading lady. Bleh. That’s makes for no story or character growth.

        Mirae is very forthright with Shin, which is exactly what he needs to be humbled. Shin has a lot of self-confidence; which is exactly what Mirae lacks, though she puts up the mask that she does have it.

        Marriage is a compliment of two people; partners have to balance each other out such that they’ll do well in the world. I’m not saying Shin should be a foul mouthed “jerk,” but is he bad for being foul mouthed? That’s just his personality. It’s like asking whether we should be annoyed with Mirae for all of this time traveling business and messing with other people’s lives instead of facing her problems. No–people are flawed. They’re going to do stupid things. Shin included.

        In the end, every man is to himself. Seju and Shin are both interesting and viable options for Mirae, even if I don’t find Seju interesting myself. I mean, the show *is* called Mirae’s Choice. She needs to have two viable opinions to make a choice.

    • I’m firmly on two ships: Shin/Mi Rae and Se Joo/Yoo Kyung. I honestly don’t know how anyone can ship Se Joo/Mi Rae, and it has nothing to do with Shin. I see Se Joo and Yoo Kyung as a happy couple that future Mi Rae broke up! How come no one is upset about that, because I really am pissed she did it to a pair that I have no reason to believe had an unhappy marriage or that future Mi Rae had any right to mess up. I am as invested in Se Joo/Yoo Kyung finding their fated love as I am about Mi Rae/Shin. It was love at first sight on Jeju, fersakes!

      • Well, with Seju-Mirae interactions so far it’s hard not to ship them regardless of how they weren’t supposed to be “fated” for each other.

      • I agree with lexi. The writer is writing Se Joo and Mi Rae interactions in such a wonderful way that it’s hard not to like them both together despite if u ship them together or not. Love is a battlefield, there are no rules. Even time traveling lol. Time traveling is a common device in chinese dramas, and don’t the female leads mess up so call “fated” love as well but we swallow it up like candy? haha

      • Agree with Ockoala, kinda pissed with her meddling ways. Its much like cheating the people to further her greed for something – better life or whatever.
        I would be all for her if she came back in time to make Mirae into someone confident and successful but her goal is not just that. She is also trying to get the chaebol guy just because he would be someone important to her husband. I am okay with her meddling with Shin and miare since technically speaking that is her life and future/present. but to mess with Sejoo and YooKyung is just bad mojo for me.

        She is no different from the rich bitchy moms who uses their money to break up a happy couple just because she does not approve of her son’s choice in love. and get their son’s hooked up with other chaebol heiresses. Or gold digger mom that wants daughter to land someone rich by hook or by crook.

        I’m all for Shin and Mirae, their interactions are amazing.
        and its Lee Dong Gun!!!

      • PS: her knowledge is equals to rick mom money. using her knowledge to break off people is just low…

      • Well, if fate is really in the works, just like how MR still got into an accident and met KS, then SJ and YK will too….

      • Well yeah, both 2nd leads will suffer heartbreak they would not have suffered otherwise. It is kind of a crappy thing for her to do. Is she going to be all right with her hubby marrying someone else, or does she just want someone new? Her motives are pretty selfish. Not that it’s not understandable. She does seem to be in a lot of pain.

        But they will obviously meet anyway.

        @ya
        I look at it as less fate and more this is who she loves and she can’t change that. Okay, maybe that’s fate, but she’s not going to fall in love with SeJoo or some other random rich guy no matter how much of a super nice guy he is. It’s kind of ruins the romance for me when future Mirae tells her to seduce him because he has money.

        I’d be all right with her overcoming her fate with Shin if she didn’t love him or if he was an awful person (which I don’t think he is) who was terrible for her, but I doubt her issue with him is that simple. What will probably happen is they’ll overcome their ill fated relationship and end up being happy. That is a more satisfying conclusion then going with the nice rich guy who will give her an easy way out. Just imo of course. 😀

      • I should feel upset about it too but I’m actually not. Why? I trust my gut feeling that those two ships will still end up with each other no matter how much/how far future Mirae meddles with them. Yes, they may like the other girl/boy at one point and get confused along the way but (the original) “fate” will come out stonger in the end. Again, it’s just my gut feeling.^^

      • Whoa, I also feel the same way. I only read your recap since this is a big turnoff for me. I wonder if her hatred for YK is because she married SJ or she had some kind of affair with S in the future. If it’s because the first reason, future MR is really messed up thinking she has right to play with other people’s fate.

        I’ll only read recap because I can’t stand that ahjumma, maybe after the future event is clearer, I can marathon this drama.

      • Yeah i dont like future Mirae breaking up that couple and taking away from Se Joo the women he fell in love with. She stole a future from a happy couple in Se Joo,Yoo Kyung. Just because Shin who she calls honey and says is sorry for doing she changed lifes of people she doesnt know. Then she goes after Se Joo because he is rich and not because he is better guy than Shin.

        Im rooting for the OTP both Mirae judge Shin for someone he might do in an alternative future timeline. The guy doesnt know anything, he thinks Mirae, her older aunt/mother is playing him.

      • I think there is some big mistake in pointing one big point here,

        She is meddling yes but she didnt meddle with how SJ falls in love with YK because she didnt know that YK was involve in the accident and can’t make it to the jeju island.

        Remember when she said that well YK will now finising secuding him already when trying to find him aound the jeju island.

  9. I love this show! I laughed a lot and it is so entertaining to see how the OTP are getting along. Though I would like to see how SJ and MR “fate” will unfold. Can’t wait for next week!

  10. Thanks a million Madam K for the recaps. This drama is going to be my favorite fall drama for this year. YEH as usual is awesome.

  11. thanks for the racap, i like Mirae and Seju pairing more than Kim Shin, but we will see in the upcoming episodes on what changed will happen to Kim Shin that will make me want their OTP more. hehe

  12. I’m seriously loving this drama! I have no idea what to expect or how the story will develope, I’m instantly hooked on it. And Ms. Koala I totally agree, I’m pissed off that Future MiRae messed up Sejoo’s relationship, he is going to end up broke hearted >.< Unless the drama pulls a very interting twist and she actually ends up with him o.O

  13. I guess I’m not loving Future Mirae for messing up with the past. I don’t believe in rewriting your future just because you find your future self in a moment of hurt and despair. I’d rather she rewrite her own future self by learning to overcome whatever obstacles have made her want to rewrite her past. She’s messing with people’s lives (not just hers, but a whole bunch of people), but what she doesn’t realize is that each time she changes something in the past, it will have a domino effect in everyone’s future. Plus there is always the inevitable. However much she wants to mess up with the past, destiny will simply just put everything in it’s proper place. The only one who needs to really change is her own future self and how she approaches and handles her own life. Death is a certainty for all of us. We just have to learn to accept and move on. That is living—making every single present moment count.

  14. I have no problem with idol who become an actor or actress. i have problem with their fan. Maybe it’s just me. But SOME of them focus more on the looks then what the drama really about. I am a person who enjoy watching a drama regardless of how the actor of actress look. but watching a drama with idol in it is really exhausting coz SOME of the fan didn’t really bother about whole story all about.Yonghwa is handsome gorgeous bla bla bla. i get it. but to say and scream about it in every episode that he is in, was that necessary?seriously? Please focus more in his acting. let’s review about what he did in this drama which is acting. He is improve from previous drama. and that’s something to be talked about.

    • I guess you are talking about the comments on viki. I always watch the dramas without the comments the fist time its easier to concentrate in the story. That Oppaaa comments are really annoying and I’m a huge yonghwa fan, but I guess I’m old for the all fangirl screams over a hansome face.

    • You seriously need to chill. The guy has really been swoon-worthy in the first 2 episodes and it really doesn’t hurt to have such eye candy in your TV or computer screen so it’s just natural to spazz about it. Heck, even non-fans are swooning over him in drama forums. Who says everyone’s just talking about his looks? There has been some pretty good discussion in this forum, as well as in other forums about his acting improvement in the drama so far. The same discussion goes in Korean portal sites and in the comment section of news articles about MHIYD. Please stop making hasty generalisations about fans of “idols”.

      • And to base your generalisations over comments in one site is just unfair. Leave that forum and go to forums where you’re more comfortable with the flow of discussion.

  15. I am glad that I am able to come back here to read your recap again. I have been missing you for quite a while. I hope that I am able to come here to read your recap on heirs also. Have you watched Secret? I am enjoying it after episode 6. Hope to come back here tomorrow 🙂

  16. I remembered Felicity Drama in Season 4 when Ben Cheated on Her , She decided to travel back and make her choice again to not to choose Ben and choose Noel But Her love for Ben doesn’t stop after choosing Noel she got jealous .
    I think OTP will go to each other at the end and The future Mary can’t stop the destiny to take place even the 2nd Guy was Gentleman with her , she still love him .

  17. I found this episode somewhat confusing in tone.Especially because on balance so far, Future Mi Rae is 80% selfish, manipulative, cold mercenary bitch, 20% wounded altruist. I find myself actively disliking her, which is jarring in what is being promoted as a romcom. In the same way that she can’t seem to decide whether she’s the Fairy Godmother or the Evil Stepmother, I felt that this episode couldn’t decide whether it was a romcom or a melodrama.Give me LOTS more of the cute, oh so cute, innocent bubbly YEH of episode one, please.

  18. I don’t think future mirae is messing directly with se ju and yookyun. She didn’t do anything to prevent them to meet. She didn’t know it was yk the one who had the car accident with shin and even thought they met in jeju and started to look for other candidates. The hate against the ajuma it’s unfounded.

  19. Thanks for your recap. I watched this three times at various level of subbed. This is NOT a show that you can figure out everything from context. The dialog has too many clues to just guess “She said some†hing abou† death.” LOL

    I also like how layered or complex all these characters are. Everyone seems to be developing in front of our eyes…Experiencing, figuring ou† their next steps, guessing what the consequences could be for their actiøns.

    Future Mirae is the one who has the most †o lose right now. The jump back in time was prolly an emotional last ditch effort type decision. We see the results of that impulsive behavior now — she’s swinging away at whatever comes at her and hitting other people. Hers is NOT a well though† out strategy. Whatever bad thing she is trying to avoid had to have wounded her so deeply, she wasn’t thinking straight then or now.

    I don’t †hink anyone kills Oppa; I am not sure he dies. I do think she made a regretful choice along the way that separated her from him. She doesn’t look at him tragically, but apologetically. “I’m sorry I love you.” It could be something tied to Shin since they are in the same business.

    My take on the level of MR’s attraction to SJ is that it is very low. First clue is 1. MR did not gasp in admiration when his very very very handsome face appeared on her screen. 2. When ordered by her fu†ure self to seduce him, did she rub her hands in glee a† †he thought? No, she approached i† very businesslike, almost neu†rally. 3. Si††ing closely next to him, listening to †he music with him, she didn’t gaze lovingly, but very companionably. They will be very good friends, with his one sided crush. As much as Future MR needs him, Now MR doesn’t want him.

    LDG and YEH are a match made in romcom heaven. MFEO. I can’t wait †o see how they manage to overcome their seemingly insurmountable distrust.

  20. this drama is really very good, I love the plot and the performances so far, the drama is so unpredictable and intigrante so far very pleasantly satisfied me, this drama has so much potential, long ago I entusiamaba both a drama, just I love it.

  21. I am all abord the OTP train too (which is rare since I normally have a huge second lead syndrome). Those two have so much chemistry and I love their individual characters and the way they push each others buttons in all the right ways. I find Young-hwa and his role bland as hell in comparison to the pulling me in with every action LG and Shin that for me there really is not contest.

    Future Mi-rae is so freaking alive, and fascinating, and her own character like you said. I love seeing her and seeing little by little what is driving her to make these drastic changes. I too don’t think that she literally means that Shin “kills her” but it seems like their love in the end brings some kind of pain or destruction of both that she wants to avoid.

    I really also enjoy the themes of free will and fate. The fact that our choices do determine our fates yet everything still happens for a reason and what is meant to happen/be will be. I like that. It makes future Mi-rae’s interferences all the more interesting because she along with us don’t know how that will alter her future.

  22. I agree with ‘clap’. The first two episodes isn’t doing anything for me. It is a bit boring and YEH”s acting is the same as her other roles.
    To each their own.

    However, I am still going to continue watching for LDG…kinda disappointed this is his first project back. Although, he’s awesome here as always.

  23. I am a little late in the game as I just watched ep 2 and read the various opinions here. Personal life got in the way and I am just gathering my thoughts. I have no idea what’s going to happen and be reveal but I am definitely interested in finding out. When watching time travel dramas, I always wonder if you go back in time, does it mean that you change the future. As in because MR meddles with her past, SJ may not end up being a successful chaebol. as in, one change sets off a chain reaction of changes as opposed to everything stays the same except she marries him instead of Shin. If that makes sense… I suppose it will and that’s why she back to change it.

    Next, I don’t dislike future MR for the SJ-YK change yet like so many other people do. I don’t know what her reasons are entirely for disliking YK yet. Because this is a rom com, I believe the second leads will get their happy ending.

    YH’s acting – I really was not fond of his acting in his previous two dramas. So far here, he has definitely had small moments when I think, oh – not bad, improvement. 🙂 but overall, I still find him just not quite hitting the right notes so to speak or just a little lost in what kind of expression would really work and is natural to use. So it is a little hard for me to fully be on his ship because I am not fully feeling his character yet. Despite that, this is still much more tolerable than before. But I am really rooting for him… I want him to make SJ a believable opponent to Shin. While I am also not feeling the second lead ship yet, he is easy on the eyes and swoon worthy for MR. I did like their first scene together at YBS – it was very cute. 🙂 one of my favorite scenes for the episode. 🙂

    The OTP – what can I say about them? There is definite chemistry. Their characters and their history together… I have no idea what I am hoping for here. I know a good marriage is not easy to come by and takes a lot of work. So I hope that the second time around, they will come to realize just how much they loved each other and how they can work together through their problems. This is certainly easier said then done. I think it’s unavoidable that she will be attracted to Shin. The heart wants what the heart wants – and it’s not that easy to change that.

  24. Wow. I’m suffering badly with 2nd lead syndrome already! Thanks for the recap, Koala! MHIYD is cracktastic-more so than Heirs and I LUFF LMH!

  25. Um, Dramabeans says that future Mi Rae always uses a gender-neutral pronoun when referring to the person Shin “kills”?

  26. Im so invested in this drama and i like future mirae character. Eventough some of what she did is based on emotional decisions but that what th drama is. Can you change the past or its all about good choices and fate?

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