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J-ent Reports Maeda Atsuko and Katsuji Ryo Headed for Divorce After He Moved Out in June Over Constant Fights About His Lack of Assistance in Childcare — 8 Comments

  1. Sigh. This sounds like a normal couple fight escalated by childish, diva like behavior on both sides. Nothing a bit of counseling, discussion and staying away from the media won’t fix. Lots of first time inexperienced parents have these fights when the mother feels she does it all and the man is completely hands off, I think if they both calm down and discuss this, they’ll both come up with a workable solution on both sides. There’s nothing like childcare to bring out stress on a young marriage. Smh.

      • No Cleo, I may not know the specifics of this case, but I have raised four kids, have dozens of nieces and nephews and counseled a lot of new parents in the same situation. A new baby, while a blessing and a joyous thing, brings a lot of stress in a marriage due to childcare issues. It requires a lot of behavioral changes and sacrifices which not everyone is ready for. Some seemingly unprepared parents need extra counseling from more experienced friends or family members who can help them de-escalate stressful situations, provide support and align their priorities. And if there’s no family, and they can afford it, hired help can sometimes fill in the gaps. It takes a village to raise a child after all.

      • That’s definitely what I got from the article.

        He sounds like a selfish loser on all fronts. Won’t care for his own child and moves out in a big flounce.

        I wish the woman well in moving forward without him. Being a new mom isn’t easy- and it’s infinitely harder with a jerk for a partner.

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