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Big Episode 9 Recap — 64 Comments

  1. I was enjoying the show but the episode where the mom got shot by the black guy left such a sour taste in my mouth, it hasn’t been the same. I like Korean culture and dramas and to see them using stereotypes about blacks in America to advance a story line that was not that important to Korean with already enough prejudice about blacks to fill a football stadium left me cold.

    I will finish the drama but it hasn’t been the same since.

    • I agree. It was ridiculous and offensive. But as an Asian-American, I see plenty of American TV shows and even movies containing ridiculous and offensive Asian stereotypes (actually, not just Asian, but plenty of ethnicities getting misrepresented). At this point the lameness goes both ways. I’ve learn to shrug it off because otherwise I’d be left with very little entertainment fare to view.

      • Same here. It’s always been my opinion that you can watch a problematic show, but not disregard its flaws and learn to criticize it and bring it out in the open so that other fans can discuss it or learn to think more critically about what they’re watching.

        If I stopped watching all problematic things, I’d be better off not watching anything at all. 99% of the media (ESPECIALLY so in America, but Korean pop culture is notoriously anti-black and has a bad case of colorism too – preferring white skin over dark, for example) is either racist and/or sexist. :/

      • I agree with Koala (which, that’s awesome that you’re Asian American BTW, no wonder you’re so good at translating. Wish I could, then maybe I’d know more about k-pop and such lol. I have depend on people like you to help me out :P). You just have to let it roll off you back. I was talking to someone about this recently after watching an episode of The King 2 Hearts that made Americans look super racist towards Asians. All cultures have stereotypes, I grew up in rural Southern town in Florida, so I know all about that lol. It’s just human nature unfortunately. We have ridiculous amounts of stereotyping on American T.V., especially in comedy.

      • @Julie: A Korean friend of mine mentioned that the Korean subtitles during those American soldiers’ scenes in K2H weren’t as stereotypical/racist as the English dialogues made them out to be. I jotted it down to one of those lost in translation bits. This is sad since the writers’ intent wasn’t particularly to show the Americans in a bad light. Would’ve wished that the translator had taken care with the dialogues. :C

      • I personally don’t get offended by stuff like that, but the person I was talking to said a lot of people were and it was a huge deal on a dramabeans thread while the show was airing. The particular part I’m talking about wasn’t subtitled because the soldiers were speaking in English, but I do think that their terrible acting contributed to it sounding more racist than it was meant to lol.

      • Oh I just reread your post and realized I misunderstood it. Yeah it was probably more bad translation and bad acting, but it did sound that way nonetheless lol. And maybe that was the case in Big too, maybe they didn’t think through the racial implications that scene might have before they filmed it.

    • Marion Barry: Let’s get rid of the Asian businesses, have African Americans take their place!

      Barry said: “We got to do something about these Asians coming in and opening up businesses and dirty shops. … They ought to go. I’m going to say that right now. But we need African-American businesspeople to be able to take their places, too.” His comments were first reported by WRC-TV.

      When this comment was all over the news why did not the Asians do a protect march when Marion Barry offended the Asians. It seems to me that you Asians do not really care.

      interpretation: Let’s take away all Asian owned business and give the ownership of the once owned Asian business to the black people. Let ‘s deport all the Asians out of the United States.

      Marion Barry is a black Democrat racist.

      1) any black person who expresses hatred toward another race. constantly growing in number, esp. in large cities. a typical black racist hates whites, asians, and any other race besides their own.

      2) A black person that ie racist against their own race.

      3) Any bigoted black person, prejudiced against another race, purely on the basis of skin color.

      a typical male black racist often dreams of raping a white/asian woman and probably robbing them afterwards.

      a black racist muttering at a white man: “fucking white/cracka nigga.”

      a black racist muttering at an asian man: “fucking chinese nigga.”

      I real life Asians what run a business in a black neighborhood get robbed, raped, and even die. How would you feel if a black person comes to your business and goes behind the counter sticks a gun to your head after you give that person what he has requested. However, even though you plead for your life…he decides to not to care and pulls the trigger. Are you dead? or Are you alive?
      Well, I’m alive. I survived the ordeal. I did not like the brain matter all over me of dead person who held his gun to my head that was shout to death. I’m very wary around black people. Thank good by husband saved my life. I’m a Chinese who came to American in the 1970s. I do not like to talk about my ordeal until I read about coolrepublica comment.

      • You think people in China get robbed and raped by black people? They get raped by chinese people like you so watch what you say. I know a chinese woman who came here after almost being murdered in china she still has a massive scar across her neck. It wasn’t a black person who did it. She’s much happier and safer here along with all the other chinese shopkeepers who keep popping up without ever being robbed, raped or held at gun point. SURROUNDED by black people. If it’s so horrible here, I don’t know why y’all feel the need to leave china. Just stay there safe and clean like alright? I have nothing against Chines people, the more the merrier, but IGNORANT people like you should jump into a ditch and stay there. The people you surround yourself with, your pure innocent chinese men are the ones most likely to rape you and that is a statistically proven FACT. Get educated.

  2. Thank you Koala unni for the recap…You have made my day… I love today episode and can not wait to watch it again with subs…. I hope we get the confessions of love between DR/KJ before the angst begin…

  3. I have to admit that when you posted your theory I was thinking that it was a far-fetched hypothesis but today I said “How did Ms Koala know?” “What birdies have been speaking to her and what else does she know but won’t tell?”
    Do you not agree though that even though we want KJ and D together, there will never be a scene where they (Shin&LMJ) kiss?

    • I’m sad, but yeah, I doubt LMJ and my Shin baby will be kissing in this drama. It’s okay with me, as long as there is a kiss with Gong Yoo I’m all good. 😀

      • If Suzy gave Gong Yoo a little peck, why Shin baby can’t get the privilege with LMJ too? hehe

    • Hmmm…Maybe they can get away with it if it is either:
      KJ’s dream or DR’s nightmare (of getting caught.)

      Re-watching the earlier episodes, it struck me how Kyung Jae would NOT let Mari kiss the comatose Kyung Joon’s body.

      What if she does kiss him in his own body to see if that wakes him up?
      Huh? Huh? In desperation? He is a sleeping beauty, isn’t he?

      • Oohh… that’s right. Sleeping Beauty (or prince). But maybe not in desperation.

  4. Jackpot twice! The mystery which was insane ( how did you figure that out?!!! ) and of course the OTP. 🙂
    Im loving this show more and more if its any possible..

  5. Lovely lovely episode for the OTP! Thanks for the quick recap, too.

    I liked how they faught, but then regretted it immediately.

    I will need to dwell for a while in the last few minutes of the episode, and relish the looks of anticipation they both had before seeing each other…

    The nacent state of falling in love is a wonderful thing to behold. Each half lets go of previous attachments in order to grab tighter hold of the person before them.
    Looking forward to the moment when this new love and the strength of their grip are tested.

    [This is where dark clouds ☁ ☁ ☁ form…]
    I am guessing that:
    KJ falls back into his own body.
    (And wishing that Yoon Jae falls into the coma instead and won’t be heard from for a while.) The newlyweds’ time together will be short lived.
    As a result, dutiful wife has to stay hospital bedside awaiting YJ’s return to conciousness.
    Uncle and Aunt surround KJ thereby cutting off DR.

    Then, KJ’s insistence that he return to school gives DR/ KJ time to be suspiciously close.
    Seeing him as Shin will shake DR to the core, but KJ’s feelings won’t have changed.
    What was once almost possible between them becomes forbidden.
    The pain is coming! The pain is coming! Sroshytislpliouquemadic* amounts of pain.
    ☹ sigh
    *made up word = a LOT

      • So glad I could lift your spirits. wink wink

        However – it isn’t me, it’s Hong’s law of emotion:
        For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.
        Happy now – pay dearly later.
        Kinda like that saying if the drama gives you lemonade, it’s because they are going to drop a boulder on you later.

        I can only say this because I have guaranteed myself a happy ending somehow for uri OTP.
        It may be open, but it’ll still be happy.

    • Jomo my dear, How did you did the dark clouds.. .show me please.. =) I am so loving the OTP and their cuteness together. However, I still do not understand why they skip the wedding. I soo want to see the wedding of KJ/DR.

      • On my Mac, in System Preferences, under Languange and text, you can select “Unicode hex input.
        Once it has been selected, in the upper right hand part of the screen, you can open something called “Character viewer.”
        There are all kinds Math, Arrows, Stars, etc.
        The clouds are in Miscellaneous.

        Maybe they don’t want to break our hearts when we see that KJ has to leave DR? Or maybe later, there will be a renewal of vows? I like that one better.

    • I totally changed my mind!
      I do NOT want sad EVER!
      Just happy. Iroke ☼ ☺ ♡ ✌

      How can KJ’s heart be broken after finding out he was born just to save YJ?
      SO NOT FAIR!
      YJ can never come back. He was able to live 30+ years in his body because of baby KJ. So now, KJ can live in YJ’s body 5ever.

      • I think that is a distinct possibility…
        So instead, he wakes up in KJ’s body temporarily?

  6. I really gave up on plot, only care about KJ soul and DR to get together.
    Will he be back in his body, YJ body, don’t mind, don’t care, he’s sweet and hot both ways.
    They dragged all for to long, it’s time to speed up, secrets, switching/staying, DR life decision, lost memories…
    Make OTP closer for inch and let them be the same 😉

  7. You were dead on!! That is awesome!! Are you sure they are half brothers? I kind of got the impression that they may have the same parents both ways and they just sacrificed the younger son for the older one. But I may not be understanding right, or we just don’t have enough info yet. I’m still all about the plot lol. I am so curious that it’s eating me up about how Yoon Jae was sick and how Kyung Joon saved his life, and does that mean that Kyung Joon’s life is limited if he gave up something important to save Yoon Jae? Ahhhh it’s making me crazy!!! But in a good way. Da Ran and Kyung Joon were really cute in this episode!! I would still be pretty sad though if Yoon Jae had to give up his life in order for Kyung Joon to live. I hope they can both live somehow, but I just don’t see that happening.

    • I am thinking that they are full brothers as well and that the mother wouldn’t even look at KJ as a baby or recognize him as her own because he was designed as YJ’s savior and maybe she can’t seem to deal with the ethics of it all, so to her he doesn’t exist.

      • I think in the same way … she can’t believe he is still alive and more the ethic problems behind making a baby for saving another one are huge – if you saw My Sister’s Keeper with Cameron Diaz with the next plot:
        In Los Angeles, the eleven year old Anna Fitzgerald seeks the successful lawyer Campbell Alexander trying to hire him to earn medical emancipation from her mother Sara that wants Anna to donate her kidney to her sister. She tells the lawyer the story of her family after the discovery that her older sister Kate has had leukemia; how she was conceived by in vitro fertilization to become a donor; and the medical procedures she has been submitted since she was five years old to donate to her sister. Campbell accepts to work pro bono and the obsessed Sara decides to go to court to force Anna to help her sister.

        In my mind in BIG is about a baby having to be a donor for his older brother – it might be a spinal cord donation or something similar because Kyung Joon is very much alive.
        Kyung Joon’s mom might be as well a surrogate mom – is it me or mom and KJ have the same last name?
        If the birth mother is Yoon Jae’s mom – I find her even more despicable as it is for now. What if KJ’s mom(the deceased one) is the birth mom for both kids? As far as I know in Japan is illegal to have a surrogate mom – therefore in Korea might be the same situation – but I find it a muddy place to go to make the biological mother a despicable mom, while making the one who gave birth the angelic one – it would be like condemning in a show the whole surrogate mom thing. They already tackle one sensitive subject : ” the black guy did it”

  8. Arrrgggg! I only watched maybe 15 minutes of episode 9? Only the adorable, sweet moments between DR/KJae, I fast forwarded through everything else. (and Mari is working my last nerve,
    I no longer think she’s cute – she’s just a pain in the arse) I love the OTP so much but this drama is making me crazy. (in a bad way) I’m frustrated as hell and hate the Hong sisters!

    *prays for tomorrow to be better*
    Thanks for a great recap!

    • My dear you fast forward too much. You miss the mystery that Koala unni solve. I do not know how she did it.. I think she is a miracle worker. LOL. Too bad she can not make Mari disappear. Now, that will be a miracle…

      • What, the 1/2 brother thing? Pffffftttt, don’t even care. I only want to see DR and KJ together, I don’t care about anything else. I agree with those saying the side stories are boring as hell.
        I have a feeling we won’t get what we want or if we do, it’ll be the very last episode.Which is why I’m frustrated.

      • I feel like the plot, side stories, and character development in a drama are what set it apart from other dramas, because let’s face it, many of the romantic stories are very similar. Guy meets girl, guy and girl don’t get along at first, hate relationship turns into love relationship and so on…. but that’s just me lol.

      • LOL dear, you think to much about Mari, she isn’t even that good as bad person…forget her, KJ always finds ways to put her down on sleep!
        No stress, hope for some action OTP tonight!

  9. The OTP is cute and their chem is sizzling but setting that aside I’m kinda confused right now with names. In episode 8 there was a name mentioned by Mrs. Koala which was “Choong Gi” having an accident. I thought that was the name of KJ’s mom. And now there was another name thrown in the mix: Hee Seok (which was apparently the name of KJ’s mom). So who is Choong Gi now?

  10. i dont like sad ending :(,especially for this drama><
    becoz i feel that if happy ending for YJ it will make KJ sad ending
    so if KJ end happy,,YJ will end sadly
    i want happy ending for them both!
    but i dont know how
    please make it Hong sisters!!
    happy ending in cool way!

  11. Wow, that was fast. I’m really starting to get into this drama… especially loved the final scene when GD just stares at YKJ. It just made my heart thump in anticipation.

    Mari doesn’t bother me that much, but the KJ’s uncle and the Principal having crush on GD’s parents I find such a waste and doesn’t contribute to the main story line at all.

    YJ’s mom… wow what a cold woman she is. I don’t get why she wouldn’t want to know KJ or have YJ meet KJ. If someone saved my precious son’s life, I would want to meet him, get to know him and show my ever lasting gratitude.

    On a completely different note, I did not know you were Korean-American! Why did I think you were Chinese-Australian? LOL – totally off!

    • I agree with the principle/uncle part being useless time waster…

      UNLESS, their ill wishes towards DR’s teacher/student parents represent what others will be saying in the near future about DR/KJ.
      AND, the couple’s happiness despite these jerks represents DR and KJ’s future happiness…
      Of course, they are hitting us pretty hard and often with that hammer, just in case we don’t get it.

      • You know I thought about that too, they are representative of what DR and KJ will go through, but do we really need to waste that much time? I got it the first time around, sheesh.

        Also, the uncle/aunt scheming for inheritance money, hate those scenes, too.

  12. I LOVE THIS DRAMA! I love love LOVE the pace, They develop the character and their relatonship very subtle, that I come to love them as a person. It’s been awhile Hong Sister create a character that I come to love and it make me feel for them.

    I don’t care the plot anyways, this drama is all about character growth and relationship development.

  13. Thanks Koala!

    I too am preparing to squirm in Kdrama discomfort soon. All this cuteness is just getting ready for a few episodes of pain and suffering.

  14. You’re so awesome Okcoala Unni! You kicked that shaman out to the curb! People, make sure you have boxes of tissues/ or towels like we used when we we’re watching TK2H because the thunderstorm is coming. Capt Okcoala, what do you think will happen when Yoon Jae wakes up? Are they going to switch back or still be in different bodies? Since Kyung Joon saved Yoon Jae in the past, it seems like Kyung Joon saved his big brother again from death. Yoon Jae was pronounced dead in the earlier episode and if they didn’t switch, he probably be totally dead by now…I think…LOL. Or did Yoon Jae saved his little brother’s life during that accident thus the switch? I think the switch is perfect for Kyung Joon in the sense that he now knows that his big brother was looking for him…kinda…but at the same time too bad for him because he likes the same girl that his brother’s fiancé. I wonder how Kyung Joon will react in everything? I will miss Kyung Jae if they switched. For me, he’s the perfect man for Da Ran, heck! I will marry that guy right now if there’s one next to me! LOL! But the story line is a tiny bit similar with the Flower boy ramen shop where the young guy was in love with his teacher and that his got a big brother out there that he doesn’t know, and both fall in love with the same girl. I wonder if it’ll be the same ending where the girl picked the younger guy ~ Kyung Joon….haiz…going crazy here…Ahhh Stresss!

  15. Do you think Yoon Jae will die? He has died once and only resurrected through Kyung Joon. Thinking of the latest dramas when they are not shy in throwing a curve ball at us [I still lament – why did Earnest Bot have to die!!!!!] – I fear that death is coming in some form or other.

  16. Great recap! One question—did Kyung Joon really say that he wasn’t interested in the movie because there wasn’t any blood?! That’s ironic, to say the least. Maybe film blood is ok, but real blood isn’t. Haha.
    I agree that VP and uncle’s story seems unnecessary—maybe not showing us that they had crushes, but this new obsession with stalking Da Ran’s parents. I do like teacher Na and Ae Kyung, but it doesn’t bring any substance to the story, either.
    I wonder if Yoon Jae will just end up in Kyung Joon’s body? I mean, it seems like they are setting it up for a switch, but what if a complete switch doesn’t ever happen? I don’t know how I would feel about that at this point. I just want lots of Gong Yoo time, but I would also love to see Shin get to actually act again. In most of his flashbacks he’s had minimal lines. 🙁

  17. Thanks for this unnie! Well, I’m going to pat your back for being a seer. I knew your theory made big sense. Do you have a third eye or something? Or maybe you could write dramas too, hee. I hope Yoon Jae wakes up now. I’m just not sure if I like him to wake up in his own body though…

  18. I’m still not over the fact that DR basically forgot about that box full of Yoon Jae’s mementos. She didn’t care about it and it shows that she doesn’t love the shell anymore; she is no longer in love with the idea of Yoon Jae, she’s in love with what’s within, in this case: Kyung Joon. <333
    That's why it's pretty odd to me to read comments like "I still do not believe in DR/KJ relationship" I mean ARE U BLIND????ARE WE WATCHING A DIFFERENT KDRAMA???

    I don't think I ever read a comment like this here and that's why ~I LOVE EVERYONE IN THIS BLOG~

  19. Today I realized that THS are an unhappy pair of women. They must have horrible love lives or must have been jilted by younger men because these women know how to rip good emotions into itty bitty pieces. They know how to write heartache. Jomo said it best with the lemonade and the boulder but I got too comfortable. Where the f… are these women headed with this story? I see no redemption except for KJ to meet his father. The souls are not switched, too much angst. Why am I torturing myself? I write this as a release after Ep. 10. I have said it before and so I don’t mind saying it again, I dislike the Hong sisters but hope they can be happy with all the money they are making.

  20. At this point I think it’s a pretty solid bet that Kyung Joon will end up in Yoon Jae’s body (while there may be a short-lived switch to the original bodies sometime soon). Ten episodes in and they have yet to feature much of Kyung Joon in his original body except for the first two episodes. The romantic chemistry and relationship has been built up between DR and KJ-in-YJ’s-shell. I think that appearances can be a factor as well..Shin Won-ho is a very young-looking actor. He won’t likely be convincing in a time jump. I don’t know his real age but he looks like 16 to me. And what is it with him having such truncated roles in TV dramas? His character in Bachelor’s Vegetable Store was MIA for a good part of the series, too. Is it because of other commitments, like music?

    • on stage he looks older than 21… it depends on the make up

      Am I the only one having a problem with DaRan marrying someone without that someone being at the wedding?I got it that Kyung Joon wanted the wedding too, Yoon Jae – maybe, but she was the actual adult and on paper she is his lawfully wife… without his consent … More – if we didn’t see the wedding – it’s not like it didn’t happen

    • Same thing here. I think he has such a baby face that it would be odd to see KJ in his own body ending up with DR. I really do believe that KJ is going to end in YJ, after all Gong Yoo seems a better match for the actress.

  21. Hi Ms. Koala! It’s really great reading your in-depth insights. I’m not usually a perceptive person, so I truly find those quite helpful. For instance, I would still probably be wondering till now why the title of the drama is Big if you didn’t point it out. Hehe.

    BTW, what does OTP stands for? Thanks in advance. 🙂

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