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Marry Him If You Dare Episode 7 Recap — 52 Comments

  1. I really didn’t like anyone this episode, though I guess that was the point. YK was probably the most likable even if she set up the lame confession she knew wouldn’t work. At least her heart was actually in the right place. Shin is scaary when he’s mad and Seju’s massive ego is pretty unappealing and that combined with too much power can’t be a good thing. That is if he decides to use that power to get his way. Mirae is just such a doormat at times and right now is mostly uninteresting to me.

    I could barely watch the confession scene, so much second hand embarrassment all around. Ouch. The fight between Shin and Mirae will only help them, so I’m not too worried. I’m surprised Shin so totally turned on Mirae like that though. Slightly disappointing, but people were worried he got too perfect too fast and this episode puts that to rest. I am worried about Ajumma can possibly do next. I’m just so sick of her. If she’s supposed to be the villain of the story the writer is doing a good job.

    I really don’t think Mirae is ever picking Seju at this point. She might have reasons (or not) to not pick Shin, but Seju is pretty much out of the running. She might be single her whole life the way things are going right now.

    • Gosh, I too could not watch the confessions scene. At least I cant ever wtch any confession scene in a Kdrama that is made into an “event”. I too am worried how far this Ahjumma is going to take things. Its horrible, and I hope she stops. Tell Mi Rae who dies and that’s that. Yoo Kyung maybe doing the little schemes for her good, but I just love how she is not some self righteous second lead biatch who is upppity. Gosh I hate those. Ahh is next week here yet.

  2. Thank you!… I am so addicted to this drama..glad that you recap it so I can watch it w/o eng subs and understand what’s going on.

  3. After watching the drama since the start. I really cannot find the similarity from present Mirae and future Mirae. It is like watch two complately different people. Future Mirae like to gossip(example: in the cleaning room with other cleaners) and very interfering in everything. Current Mirae just want to get on with her own life and she keeps to herself a lot. She has simple taste and she does not dress up like future Mirae. How poor can future Mirae be when she is always dressed like a rich woman. It all does not add up.

      • Really! that is a big change. I am in my fifties and there are still lots of similarities from my teens to now. For the pair, there is none. Not the same @bebe dear but it cannot be completely different either. A non gossip who became a gossip. That is not Shin’s effect, I am sure.

  4. Tbh, i don’t know if i could deal with a hot tempered Shin that can’t learn to listen for the rest of my life.
    Sorry Shin, But Sejoo wins for this episode.
    I’ve realized that i like yoo kyung better than mi rae as a character. This always happens with this actress. In Gaksital, in Oohlala spouses, and now here.
    I liked how this episode sort of shoved everyone out into the fire, but boy did it really give some of us a wake up call.

    • to me even Sejoo wasn’t that great, the chaebol arrogant side was waaay over the top I was cringing while watching him after Mirae’s rejection, Yoo kyung being opportunistic and shin being harsh and he didn’t give mirae a chance to explain herself, it’s an episode about there flaws and to me I can’t say at this point that one of them is better than the other!
      and because they had a fight doesn’t mean shin is bad and they shouldn’t be together! seriously couples fight all the time, so why it’s not good them! if he didn’t try to change his personality then I will say he doesn’t deserve mirae, but that’s a misunderstanding and reacting like that is SO shin especially after having a date with her and feeling that she likes him too, so he is shocked and that’s his way to cover up being hurt! anyway that’s not a way to say that shin didn’t do anything wrong but that’s how he express himself and it’s not good, he must change and allow himself to accept the others explanations

      • I’d still pick Sejoo to be a better man in this episode. Despite being rejected and humiliated in front of his friends and Yukyung, he still had the heart to defend Mirae to his friends and to Kim Shin. Kim Shin insulting Mirae was one thing that triggered his ego to act up especially in that confrontation with Kim Shin.

      • you would still pick him but mirae is not thinking like that! I bet after what happened with both of them she is thinking like “I don’t wanna involve in anything right now”, about defending mirae it’s not new, most of the one-sided love characters in kdrama are like that so what’s new! if you accepted sejoo’s ego and acting like that so why can’t you give shin a break, he likes mirae and can sense the mutual feelings besides he can’t admit having feelings that easily like SJ.
        SJ is defending MR so his arrogant side showing then if SJ were in shin’s shoes I bet he will become upset and nasty like shin! no body said that switching shin with SJ is going to be for the better! it might be worse! and again shin was upset so his nasty side is showing, so if mirae can’t accept him or if they both can’t deal with each other then it’s better to not continue any progression!

  5. Ah and I had this theory, and I know I’m not the only one, that maybe Shin commits suicide in the future. Idk thought I don’t think the show will go this dark. Or maybe something to do with Oppa since he seems to be dead in the future.

    • Maybe when future mi rae said ” [you] kill the one i love” might just be him killing himself. At this point it could be anything since the writer has given us barely any clues about the future. If the future really turns out as bad as future mi rae says, then maybe we can sympathize a little and understand her character.
      I think the stakes will be high — this is the writer that had a hand in K2H ,which was filled with high stakes.

      • Well, maybe the sub was wrong, but in the second or third episode, when future mi rae confronts shin and he has no idea what she’s saying, she tells him “you killed the one I love, you killed “her”, not in exactly those words, but I thought it could maybe her baby, meaning, in a moment where he had to choose to either save her life our their child’s life, he would choose her life. that was my theory.

    • Jumping to bandwagon of possible theory, what if actually the one that MiRae love is actually SeJu? I mean, if you see FuMirae explanation, Mirae and Shin got married and Mirae didn’t even have a chance to know or meet SeJu. Then later on MiRae and Seju meet, love blossoms, but both are married. An affair! Shin got mad and killed SeJu. If Fumirae just want to prevent Mirae marrying Shin, she should just find her other capable man. Why does she insist on Seju?
      But then I don’t know where to put Oppa in this scheme… My first theory is actually Oppa got killed. Because Fumirae always watch Oppa with apologetic look. She also has Oppa’s picture on the window chart, with writings “oppa I’m sorry, I love you”
      Oh my head hurts.. I’m digging on this drama too much…

  6. really an interesting episode, I like the drama clearly shows that all the characters are not perfect and you can now clearly see as they are, I see now that road will decide to take each of them, they will now have to take their decision and accept each other with their defects which accommodate better and that can support.

  7. The only person I feel sorry for is Mirae more like a victim here, she couldn’t get her words in with Kimshin, Yk also wrong when she knows Mirae not liking suprises but still not care..n FMirae the caused of all.

  8. Poor SJ! My heart also broke when he saw how MR went after Shin. This is so unfair to him but I am glad that he is being mature in everything I guess he needed this to grow. I am now back on the SJ boat. Though I must say MR looks very sick in this episode the perm is not helping her look any better. Hopefully she gets rid of that soon.

      • Did you watch the whole confrontation between Sejoo and Kim Shin? It was triggered by Kim Shin insulting Mirae.

      • I may be in the minority here but I don’t see it as SJ showing his power as much as standing up to Shin who was rather condescending by pulling the “sunbae at work” card of “giving advice” to a junior. Also, don’t forget that Shin just insulted Mirae of basically being a two-timer and SJ was angry about that.

        I’m just glad that SJ is not a doormat.

      • Yes, but it was still two men trying to show which one had the bigger one. Neither came across well there, but kudos to SJ for sticking up for Mirae.

  9. After this episode…maybe it’s better Mirae ends with no one in this love triangle but someone else. I can tolerate SeJoo more. So if it’s him, I’m okay. But I can’t stand someone who doesn’t listen and I feel like Shin is the kind of person who gets hot tempered easily and rarely listens. I now have a better understanding why Future Mirae is unhappy with Shin. I would not want to be in such a relationship myself. Chemistry or not, i want someone who is not quick to lose their cool and someone who would analyze each situation with logical and impartialness and not just into conclusions.

  10. I didn’t like YK for setting up SJ’s failure in love in front of his friends… She had the motive to have him dumped so she could get with him and then when he did get dumped, she blames MR for being confused and hurt herself…

    I feel like she will keep scheming for him to fail in love every time he falls for someone just so she can have him… yes, there were nice moments of hers but I don’t see a lot of sincerity in her towards others… yes, she might have inferiority complex but it doesn’t mean that she could pick on other people’s weakness…

    • I know right? It boggles my mind how this chick keeps getting a free pass frpm viewers over and over again. She could do the most terrible thing and they still have an excuse ready to justify her actions and maybe even blame the victim if she was to commit a crime in the future.

      I guess just like in the drama, it is also true in real life that when people see a pretty girl doing the aegyo, they usually get forgiven more easily.

      She didn’t even have the right to give Mirae the dirty look or be pissed. She orchestrated that whole surprise and confession thing with the evil intent for Seju to get dumped, so she could have him all to herself. So lady dont give someone a dirty look just because your plan backfired…honestly, I wanted to poke her eyes when she did that. There was nothing noble about her intention at all.

      • I still don’t like Yoo Kyung, period. While I don’t really care who Mi-rae ends up with (bec I am a fencesitter for both guys) …. I do mind Se Ju ending with Yoo Kyung.

        YK just reeks pretentious wannabe right from the start to me. Anyone who wrangles an invite to be in an out of place situation …

        And no matter what she does – there’s always some self serving agenda behind her motives and supposedly ‘good’ advice/suggestions.

        How is that genuine, and excuseable?

        More importantly, IF she didn’t find out Se Joo is who he was, would she be as interested at all?

    • Correct me if I’m wrong, but wasn’t Sejoo responsible for setting up the actual event? He was the one to invite his friends. Yoo Kyung did point him in the wrong direction, but I don’t think it’s fitting to blame his humiliation in front of friends (or at least all of it) on her too.

  11. Maybe this is something I just don’t understand, but how does having one conflict drive a stake into a budding relationship? If Shin and Mirae can learn to work towards a better understanding of each other because of the flare-up, I’d say they’re even more suited for each other. If someone walks into a marriage thinking it will be all fine and dandy 100% of the time, he’s/she’s sorely mistaken…and I’m not talking about just the petty fights. Shin needs to learn how to control his temper and I really think Mirae is the one that has to teach him. If anything, two partners have to help support each other’s flaws.

    • I don’t think it does. Better to happen now and Mirae be aware of what she’s getting into and for him to realize he has to change, than meeting Shin and falling in love and then only finding out about his issues later. If they can move past this it’ll only help their relationship. Everything ajumma does ends up helping them anyway.

      • Honestly, I don’t find it far fetched that Shin got angry and lost trust in Mirae. Walking into another guy confessing to Mirae and her taking the flowers has got to hurt, especially when he’s under the impression Mirae invited him. In a whirlwind of emotions, how does one act? Like a sane person who goes and tries to find out what the other side’s story? Shin? The person who has some temper issues? He can’t change instantaneously, just as Se-joo can’t drop his chaebol arrogance overnight, Yoo-kyung can’t forgo her self-preserving nature, or Mi-rae, her lack of confidence. If they all changed so quickly, they’d become unrealistic people in an unrealistic world, which tends to be a nasty narrative combination.

        Even if we ignore all of Shin’s personal flaws, I’d still find his reaction normal. In fact, I’ve seen it all the time in K-drama, and no one seems the wiser when there is no palpable second lead. Because Se-joo is a nice guy in the end, we feel something is wrong. When the OTP is undisputed, we’d just call it couple bickering. What Shin did was wrong. Totally wrong. But I don’t think it makes him any “less” than what he “was” before.

      • It was a pretty normal reaction. From thinking you are being invited by the person you like to seeing that person being confessed to by someone you are already jealous of. Some people when they are hurt get mean and act tough with their words. My grandma was the same. She’d get mad and say horrible things to people. When she cooled down she always felt bad for what she did. She was a nice lady 95% of the time and not abusive or crazy lol

        All 4 of the leads is to blame for what went on there. Shin is responsible for his own actions, but he was also set up to show the worst side of himself.

  12. There’s a lot to ponder in this episode. Future Mirae has got to be stopped. Why couldn’t that time cop nab her and take her back to the future.I’m glad they showed each character has their own flaws; Shin for being hot tempered and indifferent to Mirae’s feelings to the point of disregarding anything she had to say, Mirae for her lack of confidence in telling Se Joo her real feelings. She could not even find the courage to apologize to Se Joo directly. Yoo Kyung for being opportunistic and looking out for herself (albeit she was being true to self). At this point I don’t see Yoo Kyung developing any feelings for Se Joo yet, instead I see her strategically planning for her future, though I’m sure it will eventually develop as she spends more time with Se Joo. Se Joo for the lack in follow through; he knows what Mirae likes but contrary to his instinct he listens to Yoo Kyung. I like the fact that this episode shows that each character’s foible is what makes them human and relatable unlike a character that can do no wrong. I just hope that all the future Mirae’s meddling will be set to right soon and whatever changes so far will be a positive outcome for Shin and Mirae, therefore, revised any negative consequence in the future. I also don’t want to see Se Joo tossed under the bus because Mi Rae likes Shin, rather, I want to see the relationship development of him and Yoo Kyung.

  13. I actually don’t mind the ahjumma meddling because everything she does move things forward. And since she risk her life to travel back, it wouldn’t make sense for her to give up so easily. Her logic must not seem sound to us, but she must have her reasons and regrets big enough to travel back.

    I love love everything about this episode. Shin fight with Mirae is better done now rather than later. One can’t say they are in love with someone until s/he see all facades of that person. And perhaps this will give shin a chance to change his personality if and when he realized Mirae is worth it. Nobody is perfect, but a person can become a better person by changing for love.

    I love Yoo Kyung and Se Joo personality development as well. The more you see them, the more you can feel they are one of the same. While Shin and Mirae are at the extreme ends of the spectrum, Yoo kyung and Se Joo are both ambitious but realistic people. They have morals but also flawed principles as well. For example, Se Joo think he can get viewership and saving lives at the same time, while Yoo Kyung think she can get both love and money. Yoo Kyung might be underhanded, but so does Se Joo; however neither of them are bad people. They know what they want and they are willing to bend their principles and do things to get what they want. But at times, they also ponder about the morality of their actions as well.

    • Do you know how hard it is for someone to change? not impossible but challenging. By the accounts of Future Mirae…Shin never changed…you think he will change now because of “love?” By what u are saying is that future shin didn’t really love future Mirae and now things are going to change? that makes no sense to me.

      I agree. without Future Mirae…there is no real show. Just a regular couple falling in love.

      • The flaw in that arguement is that you are making that change too realisticly. At the end of the day, this is a kdrama. A drama known for the twists and turns, screams and shrieks throughtout. They are typically less that 35 episodes. Some wrap up in as little as 16 and 10 with plenty of change and development. The Cinderella concept of hateful arrogant heirs and plain, poor Jane is so normal it is overkill. SJ is the only heir and he is so far not as bad as most, but saying Shin will not change is completely unfallible in this media. Just saying.

  14. This show is sucking me in so badly! Love it! I always get 2nd lead syndrome! But I understand there is no denying chemistry between Shin and Mirae. You remember in the beginning when Fumirae saw Seju and she saw him in a halo? We’ll, when she saw Shin, her heart started beating really hard???!!! Hahah!

  15. I have been following this drama since it started with high expectation but besides the scene where Mi Rae went skinny dipping in the sea was beautifully shot and executed, the rest of the drama stayed in bland ville. Chemistry between the 2 male leads wasn’t sizzling or electrifying. I am still watching but not into it. Secrets is so much better if the editing/directing could improve in the first few episodes.

    • me too gene. i love secrets. this show is tanking in the ratings for good reasons. i think koala should recap secret or the new show empress ki instead. Secret is turning out to be amazing and empress ki is showing promise.

  16. Havent seen this episode, but based on your recap, this Ahjumma Mirae is really acting a big bad wolf in sheep’s clothing. Could it be the real villain of this drama is the Future Mirae and is putting all blame on others or Shin when she’s the real issue to begin with??? Well it seems far-fetched for now seeing that young Mirae is anything but a sweetheart.

  17. I have a feeling that the person who “died” in the future is the Mirae of the past. Maybe over the course of their marriage Mirae changed so drastically that she has become someone that even her own self could not stomach anymore.

  18. First drama for me that I’m rooting for none of the male leads. Shin’s splashing water on mirae previously and this episode where he just rages without listening is definitely the type that I have no patience for. And the chaebol prince is just moping this whole episode.

  19. I love your recaps, OC Koala! Your retelling of the episodes are always spot on and your personal take on them are truly refreshing to read.

    Thanks for spending so much of your personal time on keeping K-Drama fanatics like me happy with your wit and gift of prose. Your commitment is very much appreciated!

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