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Secret Love Affair Episode 13 Recap — 52 Comments

  1. I wonder why a lot of people assume that HW can just drop everything and leave with SJ now. Don’t forget, she has the law coming after her; that has to be resolved first. If she ran away now, wouldn’t that make her a fugitive?
    I really like how SJ is helping the misfit students. Hopefully, the cello student will get justice against the snob cello instructor.

  2. Thank you for the recap and analysis. I’ve been waiting for this. I thought HW might have to go to jail, but maybe she’ll get pregnant. I’ve made too many guesses already. I’m ready for more music and less angst.

  3. I watched this show without subs first and came out feeling for the very first time, that Sun Jae reaches his breaking point soon, that it might really be better for them to split, that he will be the one to break up.

    Their meeting at the pottery, the bright lamp between them, is it, that now, that everything is out in the open, it is wedged between them? It is their moment of truth as Sun Jae is no longer able to pretend to believe that Hye Won would be able to remove the obstacles and simply saying ‘I love you’ again and again is also not enough to solve their problems.

    Sun Jae now fully understands her involvement and he had to realize, that she still will not let go of her career and financial success willingly. But it is the first time, I think, she clearly says, that she doesn’t want to lose him, too. He shows a little relieved reaction to this statement.

    I am very conflicted about this situation. Hye Won’s motivation was to belong to the upper class. What’s her motivation now? To win? To keep her status or money? She is a realist, she knows you can’t live on love alone. He is too young and naïve, but he is also not the person to compromise. He hinted at a break up which she couldn’t abide. But he and his understanding of life’s morals are so different from hers, how much further can he go?

    Da Mi saying, that passion will vanish soon, and Hye Won’s reaction to it. Was it disbelief, because Sun Jae got her for good? Offence, that a younger woman should not talk stuff like that?

    Sun Jae doesn’t allow Da Mi to sit on the bed on which he made love with Hye Won. So bittersweet.

    The meeting between Hye Won and Kim was breathtaking. ‘Why would you assume I’ll go to jail so easily. This is just the beginning.’ It’s her declaration of war. And he is a little shocked, he didn’t expect this reaction.

    Did Sun Jae learn something through the secretary and the girls? Will this be his chance to help Hye Won? Or does this scene exist to show us, that he’d never go Hye Won’s way who would have chosen Yoo Ra? He prefers to surround himself with the mediocre students and simply enjoy his music. All in peaceful colors and sunny. Is he drifting away from Hye Won?

    Of all the villains and cowards in Kdrama Professor Kang must be the one I despise the most. No words for his behavior.

    I really don’t know now, where this show will take us, but it can’t be any lower, better times have to come towards the end.

    • So much to think about!! Thanks for your interpretations.
      I don’t understand the part about the secretary and the girls. What girls?

      • Cello girl and Yoo Ra. I’m referring to the scene on campus. Sun Jae walks along with the secretary and meets first Yoo Ra then cello girl, after which he chooses to play the duet with cello girl. He gained some insight into the college network in this scene. Hopefully it will become crucial later.

    • I don’t agree that Sun Jae is naive with his worldview, he is realistic,mature for his age. How can he be poor son of single mother and not know money,power is all important to some people. He just prefer living like he does and work his way without becoming corrupt for power, upperclass prestige like Hye Won.

      He just don’t care for easier life that he has to ruin his life like Hye Won did. You don’t have to be a genius musician to enjoy simple, normal life, love.

      • And yet it is the naivety of a young guy believing, that love will carry you and your relationship for decades. Run away and everything will be fine is a starry-eyed approach. Hye Won knows, what losing his career and music would do to Sun Jae, because she has gone through the same situation.
        She is not willing to sacrifice his career and she knows, that no love can survive major money troubles for a long time. The monotony of everyday life will come no matter what. So, yes, he has been quite naive till now.

      • He is naive about his love for her being enough for her but he is imo not naive about escaping from a life that Hye Won regrets.

        It might not save their relationship for decades but it will take Hye Won away from this life.

        His career? His music is important but the wise Sun jae was right about not using him as excuse and the big question is does she want to waste her life with that world. I love the word grenades he uses.

    • There was something he caught about Baek and the gang that made him stop and question, but he didn’t finish the thought.

      “So perhaps?” Maybe it is just that he realizes HW isn’t the only one playing around with money?

      • Yes, exactly. I have high hopes, that in the end he will not be so unable to help Hye Won as he always thought, that he will connect some dots.

  4. Thank you for your hardwork. I have been waiting for your recap. Ep 13 and 14 are so difficult to watch and I imagine recapping to be much worse. I really love your analogy using the 36 stratagems. “And the best is to flee”. There has been much discussion as to whether fleeing for HW is an option. Even if she wanted to, is it possible? Fleeing may not be possible without serious repercussions but HW’s admission to SJ that she doesn’t want to lose the reimbursement of years of hard work is what worries me. How much is enough? How long she needs to fight?

  5. Why do we assume that HW has an option to leave and flee with SJ at this time? Isn’t the law coming after her? When SJ asked her to give up everything at the pottery shop, HW’s hesitation might be because she knows that she has to clear her name first and not because she wanted to hold on to her wealth.

    • My assumption is based on the USB info. That no matter how much dirt they claim to have on HW, she has more damaging evidence that will give her the upper hand.

    • I realize I didn’t answer both parts of your question.

      Leaning heavily on the imagery of battle where you inflict harm and risk getting harmed in order to win ground or protect ground you already own. That is what I think she needs to avoid. Holding on to wealth is not worth the cost.

      Fleeing to me means not standing her ground which means NOT keeping whatever monies she has amassed somewhere off to the side. I am assuming this as well, since there was a mention that one of the questionable accounts is in her father’s name.

      It doesn’t mean she can avoid taking responsibility for what she has done illegally, but it also doesn’t mean she should let the bad people’s accusations that she was the ONLY one embezzling stand.

      I want her to walk away from the whole SH kingdom with nothing. Get the heck outta town.

  6. HW really annoyed me this episode. She cannot have it all and something’s gotta give. There are decisions to be made, give up her job, husband, and go away with SJ or stay in her miserable life and be a slave to her bosses, which will break her in the long run.

  7. thanks for the recaps Jomo. well, like I said in the last recap, I would like to see HW make the right decisions independently of SJ.

    she needs to see that what she has is empty and that should be enough reason to want to leave it all behind now. as SJ says, don’t use him as an excuse and don’t use him as a reason to leave either. leave because it’s the right thing to do.

    Poor SJ. not being able to help falling in love with her and having such a difficult love as his first. I really feel heartbroken for him too.

    I have an ending that I would like. I hope that HW does got OT he police and by turning everyone in, gets herself a light sentence. The enemies are defeated. in the meantime, SJ continues on his music and becomes successful and waits for her to get out. their love survives.

    it’s not a spoiler!! just my own preferred ending 🙂

    • I don’t think she can escape punishment, either.
      I have been thinking HW could turn state’s evidence and get a lesser sentence, but she would have to get around Prosecutor Hubby and the folks he is working with. The fact that even his sister is involved in the corruption shows how deeply the rot goes at Seohan.
      It makes me sick to my stomach.

      She could go directly to the press to prove her innocence, and then let the courts decide after the fact. PH would go down with the rest of them if someone anyone higher than him is clean.

      • I wonder if turning state’s evidence is even an option. The show seems to suggest that the whole system is corrupt and the only way someone corrupt gets caught is because a stronger corrupt person wants it to happen.

        But then I may be wrong.

      • Yumi –
        She could give the evidence to her editor-in-chief friend whose magazine could publish a story about corruption of Seohand and SJ — the only genuine thing at Seohan — in the same issue!!

        But, I guess Seohan clan doesn’t really care if their names get smeared. None of them live very virtuously, and Han is proud of her iffy origins. HW needs to hit them where it hurts – in the coffers. My hope is that HW not only hid monies from them, but locked it up in a way where they can’t get to it.

  8. Thanks for the recap. The introduction was lovely. I’ve been waiting breathless for the recap. I got so desperate I actually watched the drama.I’m glad I did. Despite watching the episode the recap helped me better understand some of the machinations.

    Looking forward to the recap of episode 14.

    I’ve seen this listed as a 16 episode drama. I wonder if that has changed. It’s hard to imagine it ending next week.

    • It’s 20 eps according to dramawiki. The show doesn’t looking like last weeks eps at all right now either. It is more drama thank usual rom of 16 eps. Romantic melodrama are usually 20 eps.

    • It’s 16 episodes now. The PD just said that he’s decided to end at 16 because he wants to keep his story tight (and presumably win some awards down the line rather than coast on milking this drama for ratings).

      • What!?! No, it can’t end next week. How could they possibly wrap everything up in two episodes? Ack, stress.

  9. I think the husband is a total jerk. He doesn’t wanna lose the dean position that he will take any chance to keep it in his claws, even if he has to sacrifice his own wife. SLA world is so full of hypocrisy I could puke, or at least spit like Dami. I’m a bit disappointed that even though she knows things will be uncomfy for SJ, she still tells him to come for the interview in her house. She’s too confident. Once they’re in the same room, they can’t even hide their feelings, written all over their faces while hubby pretends nothing happens. I wanna smack his face or tell SJ to get out. But there are two scenes that I love from episode 13. The first one is the quintet scene. Finally, after waiting for so long, I get to see him socialize with his college mates like normal students do. The world doesn’t only revolve around love. He’s still a 20-year old boy afterall. The quintet consisted of rejected students being blacklisted for bringing up the corrupt teacher. SJ fits with them. They can make a change together in that matter. The second scene is when HW says “Stop it!” and cries upon SJ’s words of grenade. She wishes to get SJ’s support because she’s confident she will win the battle. But SJ’s grenade hits her because she knows he’s right.

  10. There’s so much to flesh out in the characters, their interactions, and their choices as the story continues to unfold. Everything is going from bad to worse and it’s chilling how instinctive corruption is to these people that the issue of infidelity has somehow become trivial. Watching SLA hasn’t failed to bring on whirlwinds of emotion that I usually experience in viewing suspense or mystery thrillers. You know those scenes in scary films where the lead character keeps on wandering in dark alleys investigating alone? And you know something’s going to leap out at some point so you keep screaming at her in the screen to just get out of there? Seeing monsters taunt Hye Won in broad daylight looking quite comfortable in their own skin has just been even more frightening. The 2 episodes per week is just the right pace to keep my heart from bursting but I sure hope the writer wraps this up real well.

    Thanks for the recap!

  11. I love all the recaps.yeah.epi 13and 14 are difficult to watch.its so slow n painful at times.if only hw could just leave everything behind n live her life without all those material trappings.I would love a good ending though the culture for kdrama is …no matter how bad things are…married couples seldom divorce.sigh….I really hate those people who manipulate the situation n made full use of hw.now that,when things turn bad hw will b made the scapegoat.it’s so unfair!!!the relationship between sj n hw really made me sore.if it’s so painful to love,why should they continue?I think hw is trying to make sj to stay away so tt she can keep him safe.maybe this is the best hw feels tt she could do for sj.though this melodrama will be a bit hard on the Asian culture tt marriage is sacred n the reversal of age gender love,I am still keeping my fingers cross tt they will b safe together

  12. By the way,I hate the selfish husband,the pretentious snake Wang Secretary n the entire seo clans…argh…..coming episodeswill b difficult to watch.please…..please…..let them live n love

  13. Thanks so much for the recap and all the comments and discussions. I really enjoy reading these to aid my understanding of the show….

    1. If the Clara Schumann/Brahms reference made in an earlier episode by the dean is of significance, then Brahms leaves Clara Schumann even when there are no real obstacles to their union. There is no clear reason he gives but historians and biographers have suggested that he was felt perhaps that this love was too much for him to bear and that he needed to escape to make his music. He never married. I felt that perhaps that might be possible this episode and I think it might not be a bad ending. Sun Jae needs to be his own person for a while — make his own way in the world and I am not sure Hye Won can step back and let him.

    2. I know many of you hate Professor Kang but I find him complicated and weak but not a villian. I mean Hye Won is hardly blameless — she lived with him for so many years… made so many compromises to get some fame and money and I am not judging her for that but she is hardly a victim here. She is in a very bad situation of her own making and I can totally understand why for herself and for Sun Jae she would need to leave with as much as she can get but why blame Professor Kang when she has enabled him all along.

    3. Also, she was a goddess to Sun Jae and I have always wondered about this — can he love the woman now as he has loved the goddess before — that is his choice to make and I think those scenes where he is with the misfits playing and finding his own space and pace will be the kind of character growth that will help him make that choice (or not). He is very idealistic but in order for any love to make it in the real world, it has to grapple with the dirty, messy business of loving.

    • I thought Brahms and Clara Schumann were close up to her death. They lived in relatively close proximity and sometimes too family trips together.

    • Which is what I liked about ep 13,14 he saw clearly she wants also her status, money and fame. He saw she is not just the women he loves who shares music with him, who is gentle when she is with him.

      He know her flaws much more now than in first 10 eps when He saw her as only The goddess He loved and was her trueself only with him. He can choose her or not much more clearly now.

      That she thought in insecurity that he cared about her money, power must been shocking for him.

  14. As much as I want Hye Won to let it all go and leave with Sun Jae, my more pressing desire is for Hye Won to burn that place to the ground.

  15. Finally! Been waiting for a recap! Thanks, Jomo! Love this drama…not my usual. I don’t really care if oh hye won and sun jae end up together…I just want her to get the bad guys! I really hate those snobs….ugh!

  16. I’m so glad I found your recaps. I watch this drama so intently but due to the limited dialogue, I’m afraid I miss some of the nuances. Your recaps are really helpful in not only clarifying things but in giving me more food for thought.

    Interestingly, I can’t say I’m 100% invested in this couple, yet I’m on the edge of my seat as to how everything will be resolved. The writing is excellent so even if it’s not the ending of my choosing, I feel confident it will be done well.

    Thanks Jomo! You and Ockoala have worked hard!

  17. Remember that HW is an excellent strategic thinker. She got SJ out of the jail by using her husband, she’s the mahjong expert, she’s a manipulator for years. She refuses to run away because I believe she has a very good plan under her sleeves, a plan that will not harm SJ’s future. I believe that keeping her marriage image is part of her plan too. Being so confident in front of the prosecutor also indicates that she’s the one who has the upper hand. All she needs now is a trust from SJ to let her do the plan.

    • Speaking of mahjong, what was the purpose of showing the evil secretary’s learning of that game? The camera focused on that book at least twice so I’m assuming there’s a significance to it?

      • It is what people of leisure play. She is maybe hoping to replace HW at Seo’s get-togethers once HW gets thrown in the slammer.

      • She wants to replace Hye Won in the structure of Seohan in part by learning mahjong and moving into Hye Won’s spot in the game.

  18. The trope of gazelles trying to play with tigers and perhaps coming to a bad end in this drama makes me think of Secret/Secret Love. In both cases you see a bright person from a working/middle class background aspire to join the upper echelon. For a time they are allowed in to perform certain duties for the benefits of the inner circle of those with power, but ultimately they are tossed back to be punished for crimes they might or might not have committed and the cloak of power they had been borrowing gets snatched.

  19. I think most of the female fans bias the character SJ because of the actor’s appearance 🙂

    If the character HW did not wastefully live her 20s like that then SJ would not be able to meet her or to have an affair with her. The “cause and effect” law.

    HW character was a pianist (a few good one) who had to leave the piano world behind due to injury. At the lowest point of her life, she got a second chance to study overboard and a job offer with the art foundation (worse off she might have to support her poor family). Isn’t it normal for her to grit her teeth and endure everything to pay back and desire a comfortable life? Have SJ ever put himself in her shoes and find the answers why she did that?

    For anyone who has been living fine for the past 40 years was asked to drop everything in the sake of love (a very illicit one), don’t you need time to think? Despite her husband is a jerk, she handles him fine. There are many abusive husbands out there in Korea but the wives still endure and live on … it’s reality!

    I think HW character will be fine living a loveless life for the next 60 years. Love with no money will becomes loveless anyway.

    At the beginning HW used to say “using her and the foundation as his stepping stone”, consider the situation he witnessed as “life lesson.”

    Therefore, I don’t like the ending with her dropping everything and running to him. Rather she becomes the CEO and continues doing what she does best such as supporting new talents, does what the art foundation suppose to do. Also, she continues supporting his life decision through “ignorant ear” as he goes on with his life and future. It would be best if he never finds out it’s her. They could live on with their lives while holding on the beautiful memories they had.
    Regarding the legal matters, if HW becomes witness and since it’s white collar crime, she hardly gets prosecuted. I don’t think Prof Kang is stupid enough to sue them for adultery, it’s a destruction path for all of them especially if SJ makes to the final competition (the foundation needs him to salvage the school image).

    I think it’s realistic to end the drama.

    • Yup I agree with you!
      She can beat all this evil empire if she is focus but with SJ she totally loses herself, but if she win this battle , do you think she will live the way SJ wants????

      • well, I am not sure as SJ is struggling to fit in her world and vice versa. I don’t ever believe in everlasting love but do believe that we compromise and try our best as we go. He’s only 20 years old and first year college student … uhmm unsettle … open ended question for us–audience to interpret base on our perspective of life 🙂

    • everything you said makes sense. it would be perfect and realistic with this kind of ending, so i’m 100% behind you on this 🙂

      • I completely agree with you Songmai, that there is no such thing as everlasting love in real life. Compoundng this fact is the huge age difference between HW and SJ.
        In that last photo (so aptly and hilariously described as Protrait of Lovers with Cuckolded Husband!), SJ really looks young enough to be the son of Hye Won and Kang Joon Hyung!
        This looks very convincingly like a family portrait if we do not know the background or context of the whole drama!
        Also, when I see the scenes of SJ with girls his age like Da Mi and the Cello Girl and even Yu Ra, they all look so natural together. Especially the scenes of SJ with the students playing together in a quintet. This is what a 20 year old boy’s world should be like!!
        Not getting emotionally and mentally and psychologically tangled up in a complicated adult world of deceit and sabotage and cunning. He is still too young and may not have the 100% maturity to handle all this….at least not yet!
        As much as I love the relationship against all odds between HW and SJ, part of me wishes that perhaps he will fall in love with the Cello Girl because she seems like such a nice sweet simple girl, and is quite a good fit with SJ.

    • I like the idea that she continues to run SH the way it should be, not giving up and being with SJ as her only goal. It does make sense.
      I am not sure, though, that choice also means she has to live without love for the remainder of her days.

      Why does that have to be her future rather than divorcing Kang and living maybe with SJ and maybe someone else?

      • 🙂 🙂 Prof. Kang probably mixed sleeping pills and liquor too much and since he was channeling Robert Schumann. He will be admitted to a mental asylum

        I am all in with the idea of her being SJ’s girlfriend or someone else as long as she is happy. SJ used to mention that Clara Schumann remained unmarried, independent and lived with her lover something like that in ep 9 (I think)

  20. Jomo, this drama is great in so many ways but it is your writing and analysis that have blown me away. How can I not glow in admiration for a recap that utilizes 손자병법 in such a way!

  21. This is not my favorite episode, nor the next one. The only SJ and HW interactions were sad or angry or both. Seon Jae tells Da Mi that he wants to give Hye Won a chance because she told him that she loves him and wants to change her life for him. I wish we’d seen this conversation. It would have been great to hear Hye Won confess her feelings for Seon Jae in words just once. In this scene DM’s expression tells us she finally realizes how much SJ cares for HW, that this is not just a fling on his part. And that means for her that her chances to be with him are over.

    Seon Jae’s statement that he’s a “weed-like guy” is a great line! I think when he first saw HW he was attracted by her beauty and her relationship to the piano but only as a distant, intangible idea. It was later when he played for her, and even more so when they played so well together and she complimented him, that he felt a consuming passion for her that has not diminished as he has come to know her better. He is proud of her accomplishments and appreciates her elegance; but he loves her, her soul, her being, regardless of her income or appearance. And he really is weed-like!! He’s resilient, determined, patient, strong, confident; he clings onto rocky ground and survives, he does not need special hothouse care or coddling. Super quote.

    I did enjoy the time that SJ spends with the other young musicians. He’s also a “weed” here; just give him some space and time to enjoy music to nourish him and make him feel happier even during difficult moments. What a sad message to HW, I wish I could share this with you.

    Their conversation at the pottery place. It’s good that they have friends to support them. But that conversation was so dark and angry and unhappy!! I felt sorrow for them both but honestly more anger for HW. Seon Jae now understands that just telling her he loves her does not help her to get out from under the dangerous mess she lives within. When I first watched this scene, I was afraid he was saying that he no longer loves her like he once did and that he was done being patient. Then I found the translated scripts on piano conversations website and was grateful for a clearer understanding. And the party from hell continues in the next episode…

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