It’s easy to just point fingers, much more important to look at the entire picture. Young idol-actress Sulli (Choi Jin Ri) committed suicide on October 14th after spending over a decade in the entertainment world first as a child actress and later as an idol member of f(x) and finally back to being an actress and solo singer. Her looks was universally praised by K-ent, who loved her baby face, but her free spirit, need for validation, and off-kilter behavior was constantly criticized by netizens. She just wasn’t packaged to survive in K-ent and the saddest thing was her entry into the industry happened when she was too young to decide for herself that she should remain a private person so she could be the person she wanted to be and behave the way she wanted without any commentary. Some critiques of Sulli were valid like a mom would say (bad outfit, underage drinking, poor dating choices) but most were crossing the line into personal attacks on her character and judgment, and ultimate she may not have been equipped to deal with criticism of her whether valid or totally unacceptable. It was all bad on her mental state and such a sadness to see her choose the final way out. I think the only takeaway netizens need to do is to STOP slicing into the personal choices and innocuous slip ups of celebrities and given them room to live.