K-actress Go Min Si’s Agency Denies Anonymous School Age Bullying Allegations as Her Current ENA Drama Tastefully Yours Has Recently Started Airing
A new bullying allegation has emerged in K-ent and this one allegedly points at K-actress Go Min Si. Her new ENA drama Tastefully Yours with Kang Ha Neul started airing two weeks ago to a solid premiere and has doubled in ratings so is doing quite well for a small cable offering. But over the weekend there was an anonymous post that a K-actress with her surname was a bully during her school days including extorting money, verbal abuse, and ostracizing other students including disabled ones. There was enough identifying details in the post that netizens surmised it was Go Min Si, who did have a small scandal with under aged drinking in the past which she apologized for. Go Min Si’s agency has swiftly responded denying the allegations and will take legal action, saying this is all untrue and unfounded.
Can’t they wait until the drama finished airing.really selfish and inconsiderate.
I can’t say for sure whether Go Min Si is truly innocent—though she seems like a nice person.
Back in elementary school, I was bullied relentlessly. There was this girl—Little Miss A—who played the sweet, caring role in front of adults, especially my mom. But behind the scenes? She was the ringleader, indirectly encouraging other girls to torment me too. If *she* could get away with it, why wouldn’t they join in?
No matter how much I tried to reason with her, she’d just smirk and dump her homework on me, forcing me to do it for her. For three long years, I endured it—until one day, something snapped.
Another girl, **Little Miss B**, kept jabbing my back with a pencil, during the class in session. Fed up, I grabbed my tumbler and **splashed water right in her face**. The shock on her face was priceless. Even the strictest teacher in school saw what happened—but she just glanced at us and went back to teaching. **And just like that, the bullying stopped.**
Little Miss A backed off too. But here’s the kicker: she still became a school prefect. Life rewarded her, even though she was a bully. Perhaps some trolls here might even think *I* deserved what she did to me.
The Harsh Truth About Bullies
– Bullies only stop when you stand up for yourself. But it took me three years to finally stand up for myself.
– Society often sides with the strong. Bullies thrive because people admire confidence—even if it’s cruel.
– Victims are silenced. If I shared my story today, some might still defend Little Miss A. People prefer winners, not the ones who were hurt. They love strong tough individuals who can suppress weaker people.
Why Do Bullies Always Win?
Because the world is unfair. People support those in power, even if they got there by stepping on others. They dismiss victims as “whiners” who should “just get over it.”
Life is unfair but we should not let bullies and their supporters cause us more miseries.
Bastante fuerte lo que escribes, no se que rol tendran los maestros a nivel mundial. Y siempre me pregunto donde estan cuando suceden eso, en lo personal como maestra aca en Peru estoy muy atenta a casos asi, para poner un alto en la primera,si hay algo que no soporto ver es los abusos a otros.
@ Brigitte
Thank you for your kind response. Indeed you have a kind heart. It’s sad that bullying happens and even teachers can’t help if it’s well hidden from the teachers.
Thank you for your kind concern. Wish there are more people like you in this world.
@ Brigitte Gracias por tu amable respuesta. Tienes un gran corazón. Es triste que el acoso escolar exista y que ni siquiera los profesores puedan evitarlo si se les oculta. Gracias por tu amable preocupación. Ojalá hubiera más gente como tú en este mundo.
I never was bullied @Rei, but when i was young i worked as a school supervisor, I was a little thing of 22 years . 45 Kg , 157 cm , but it helped me because the teens didn’t notice me and i could pass for one of them . And it was very satisfactory for me to prevent a lot of children to be bullyed . I have been threatened by some bullies but i stand my ground , 30 years later, i was shopping and a woman with 2 children came to greet me, i didn’t recognize her but she did , she was one of this children ! I was so happy to see that she was doing so well ! Just to say that if one can , he must take action and do not look elsewhere , which a lot of teachers do .
Hi cahill!!! Have not seen you in a while. How are you? I love out YEH’s gardening project. I am tempted to go the same in my tiny outdoor space too.
Hello @cahill
Thank you for your kind words. It’s great to have teachers like you around. Yes normally teachers are very caring. It’s just that bullying are almost done “behind the scene”. Without witnesses it’s hard to make teachers help out.
You are so kind to help the victims. Indeed they will remember and appreciate you always for offering them hope and assistance during those difficult times.
Today I shared this experience with a friend. And he looked uncomfortable and I asked him, is it because he thinks I shouldn’t throw water at the bully despite me having told off the bullies many times. He said yes. So it’s sad to see that he felt as if I am the bad person even though these girls had been bullying me around for 3 years. I asked him what he expects me to do even after I tried to reason with them for three-four years and that even my own mom didn’t believe me. And I had no witnessses to inform the teachers. He had no answers or solutions so he changed the topic of discussion.
So that’s why bullying still happens coz people blame the victim instead of the bullies. They even protect the bullies and get angry at victims who took actions. It’s a cruel world and that’s why good souls like you are so rare and precious. 😄
@The hole
Maybe your friend is very kind and didn’t saw harsh reality of school bullers and violence as general, and this is why they think responding harsh way isn’t good. But they aren’t saying their opinion for all people, I think if you tell your story to other person they would tell you “good job”.
It’s sad your mother didn’t believe you, but unfortunately parents also don’t represent the right reaction to such things.
These kinds of scandals continue to widespread in the Asian showbiz cuz Asian fans are very gullible and easily manipulated by social media.
Regardless of this allegation being true or not, it seems to suggest that bullying culture is pervasive in SK. At least, Kdrama loves this topic.
I posted something but didn’t appear… hmmm
I like the Go Min Si I watch on small screen. I thought she was as nice girl. But I dont know her personal life nor her history. I will not have a opinion now as I feel it is best to wait and see.
The accusations are not just bullying…there are so much more to them. Too hard for public to ignore and rumours just disappear. Let see how this situation will be dealt with.
She is currently still set to film her next high budget project. So things are not looking bad for her..
I really hope the allegations is wrong, I mean there could only be so much good actors being bully. Her having past scandal of underage drinking is worrying tho
I agree, she admit to it too as there are photo evidence…in fact, I only read more about her history after this bully case surfaces. I was surprised. As her current image is so different.
I have to question the timing for this. Also, Hwang Jung-eum has an even bigger scandal that merits more attention (she admitted to embezzling from her agency for some crypto investment scam).
She admitted to embezzling her own company…. case close. Since she did not deny it. She takes full responsibility for her action. She lose many jobs already. There is really nothing more to say. There is no need to cover up anything.
Oddly she hit a legality of sorts because she was taking money from her own company, which she 100% owned and generated 100% profits for…
@ HL, i second you . If everyone could admit their wrongdoings right away when they are guilty it would save the time and the money of many people !
@anya…ya. it is tax office that are owed in such case too. They will chase for the money owed. Unfortunate she may own company 100% and it is her own earnings, there are tax to be paid. And there may even be shareholders who do not know.
it’s her own money, supposed to be for her own company that only work for her,
it’s like self inflicted scam and she did not scam other people,
there is no victim beside her and no one sue her.
It is not as simple as regular people think. I own and run my own business…but all must be done legally. Her action is commercial fraud. The tax office will chase her.
Bullying is still a serious matter so will wait to see if she’s innocent or not.
She always had and still has that aura bullies have.Even her gaze when she is acting as different characters still there… Im not surprised if its real with ALL details they gave. It was very detailed I must say…
You are correct. Whenever I see her in Tastefully yours, I always feel something is wrong. Her face makes me feel uncomfortable.
OMG! I thought it’s just me who noticed that aura but I really had a hard time watching her in Youth of May because of that though I love love love her acting in Love Alarm and The Frog because it feels like she is suited for the crazy bitch role. I’m not saying I like the characters there even though their shit people, I just think that she acted better in those role given her aura. It’s just feels natural.