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Rich Man, Poor Woman Episode 9 Recap — 20 Comments

  1. you’re thoughts was right on the dot. i love the way you analyze their characters, personality, weakness and strength, that was fantastic. ep 9 makes up the almost (oops oh! no… ) kissing scene. ms koala looking forward to your rmpw updates. thanks.

  2. Thanks Capt K! I lost interest in viewing it week to week (or rather ran out of time) but reading your recaps makes me want to marathon it when it finishes airing.

    I haven’t been following doramas much lately. You are right, they don’t have these types of dramas anymore at least much. Detective is so big now – which is ok since I love detective. But I sure do miss a good romance story.

  3. Thank you for the recap. The main actors are really awesome. Their expressions really move the story along even without need for words. Or better than words even. Can’t imagine how this will end. That’s the joy of this drama. What a wonderful ride! Thank you again for this great recap.

  4. Thank you for the recap!! 😀
    As for me, I’m planning to watch this episode again without the whole asahina siblings story. Just Hyuga and Makoto :3 and it’s perfect!

    The only disappointment left is that there just two episode left ;;____;;

  5. Koala-
    Thanks for doing this recap. I appreciate your thoughts, and the time it takes to shake and bake them, because you give me a reason to go back and watch the scenes again to see what you saw. When I do, I enjoy them even more.

    I like your Chanel/Juicy analogy!

    Ass-hat and Yucka deserve each other. Slimey slimeballs.

    Something bothered me about how they presented the scene where Hyuga hits bottom flashing back to the three who have abandoned or betrayed him, but you fixed it. It didn’t seem fair that Makota was lumped in there with the others. All she did was meet Ass-hat in public in a cafe and talk to her mother on the phone. Why so suspicious, H?
    But THAT is the point. Since it is Hyuga’s POV, he remembers Makota crying, not walking away. HE is the one in the flashback scene who left the room. Hyuga is the one who has to accept Makota as what she says she is – FOR him, on his side, and completely trustworthy. She may have broken his wall, but he has to build the bridge between them.

    (That is why in the scene right before his breakdown, we saw him walking back to the office, and he looked up to see if the lights were on and if M were still there. That was a nice touch, letting us see him hope.)

    That kitchen scene was an amazing show of intense feelings between the OTP. Yes, a kiss then would have been completely acceptable, but it was perfect as it was.

    I have to admit something, in front of everyone here, I don’t feel the Pavlovian emotional impact of hearing “accept/take responsibility” as I should. Even after all these years and dramas where it is used as the big confession and gap jumper.
    I think because in English to me, the words equal a legalish term of admitting negligence. Like if my kid threw a brick at someone’s window and broke it, I, as the mother have to accept responsibility.
    It isn’t a romantic word at all

    There are a few non directly translatable phrases that I have accepted.
    One of them is “I’ll leave first.” It always hits me as funny. It isn’t as if people are counting up to something, and nobody ever says, “I’ll leave third.”

    • “I have to admit something, in front of everyone here, I don’t feel the Pavlovian emotional impact of hearing “accept/take responsibility” as I should. Even after all these years and dramas where it is used as the big confession and gap jumper.”

      @jomo, Idk if it was meant to be romantic or at least I never took that phrase to be one either. The phrasing is legalese for me too tbh. LOL.

      Loose the genie from the bottle, one needs to realize the responsibility that comes with it and be willing and able to deal with the end results.

      • Hmmmm… interesting, mskololia.

        So the impact, while not romantic, is a feeling like they have stepped up the seriousness or permanence of the relationship?
        Then throw in breaking the glass at a Jewish wedding?
        It implies they are going to be together till death do us part?

      • I took it to be more like opening Pandora’s box. 🙂

        Yet, I hope it does imply romance for our OTP though.

    • I more see at as what the fox says in Little Prince: “You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed.” In RMPW case, Hyuga wants Makoto to be “responsible” for what she started… that she takes it seriously… and doesn’t back out…

  6. I actually liked that they didn’t kiss. I liked that Hyuga fought with himself and stopped. He was not sure if he can be “responsible” 😉
    I liked all his inner fights this episode… and sort of admire his courage to start again (after the 2 painful betrayals – of A. and mother).

  7. Everything about this episode was perfect! <3

    As for Hyuga being extreme esp. when considering his social skills & high IQ: I wouldn't be surprised if he has a high (very high) functioning Asperger's syndrome. In E3 Makoto & all of us were horrified that he enjoyed the countdown when the employees find out if their contracts were renewed or not and he doesn't seem to grasp the importance of the shareholders (when they mocked him he seemed to get so aggravated that I thought he would resort to violence). We know by now that he isn't being a jerk to hurt others deliberately. In the preview for E10 when Hyuga & Makoto are in the bus and she's napping on his shoulder….I read that his monologue is about him unwittingly hurting her or something along those lines. After Asahina's betrayal at least he's learning that he may hurt others through his actions or words. Unless he actively works on this, he’ll still need an Asahina or a Makoto to navigate the social scene (given his prosopagnosia as well).

    Thank you for the recap: your love for the characters & the show is very palpable.

  8. That last scene at the kitchen is so sweet and lovely. H appealing to M to “take responsibility” is in effect saying, I am now willing to expose myself, take a step of faith in relying on someone again and become vulnerable. Be there for me….squeeee!!!! For someone with such a low level of emotional maturity, that is a HUGE step indeed!

    Love this show. Love the recap. Love the comments. Thanks Capt. K!

  9. I loved episode 9 and this is one of those episodes I’ll re watch again and again (along with 8)… Especially the last part when he says “if u break a wall, you have to take responsibility for it” it was a roundabout confession but I was soo happy.

    What you said about Makoto doesn’t quite bother me. It isn’t that she is doing it for a man or for love only. It’s because she enjoys it. But I agree it doesn’t make sense she would be there forever since she doesn’t know programming at all.

    • Hyuga inspires her: when he finishes his speech in E5 she seems to be overwhelmed when applauding. For now like our dragon-slaying trio she wants to be working with him since they know his potential & know that he will continue to make a difference. Later, she can support her man w/o working with him and do her thang.

  10. This is going to be my go-to episode to watch whenever I have a set back at work. I wish we all had a Makoto to encourage us when the you-know-what hits the fan. Hmm. Off to watch it again!

  11. thank you Dot for the reference to the Little Prince. That is how i took it; therefore the impact on me of that H line was more than romantic. The actual proposal (as proposals come, it has to be answered with a yes or no, right?) , for me comes after the ‘take responsibility’ line. But i think somewhere it is lost in translation. It is where H says– You are now involved. Are you alright with that? This for me is the proposal. Except that, i think bloggers used the word — embroiled? More complex and less romantic. How do you say I love you in Japanese anyway? this is not my first j-drama but i cannot really recall that phrase unlike in Korean dramas.

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