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Marry Him If You Dare Episode 14 Recap — 80 Comments

  1. Thank you again for posting this so quickly. I am also watching because of LDG and his acting. He is so good in this. Kind of reminds me of how Kim Jae-Wook was heads above everyone else in Who are You. I hope Se Joo wakes up and sees that YK is the one that will help him grow YBS.

    Now that FMR knows she changed nothing in her past, I hope she fixes the mess she created in this timeline.

    • Se-joo is a privileged b******d that need to have his ego satisfied. He enjoys “beating” Shin at this useless game that Shin wasn’t even playing. Yoo-kyung thankfully became the brains of YBS, or it would have gone down the drain. I like her even more now.

      • I don’t agree. I will say I like Se-Joo so much I hope he doesn’t end up with MiRae at all. She is not the typical heroine that needs saving-in fact she needs one big kick for being so washy-washy about her life and love.

        In fact I hope Shin doesn’t end up with her either! He definitely deserves someone better too!

        MiRae should just disappear into the future with future MiRae and leave the boys with an actual bright future!!! Anyone else would be better!

  2. Sigh. ALl I can do is sigh at this point. The only thing I am enjoying are the screenshots of Lee Dong Gun. I hope he does not scurry off and only work his music after this.

  3. I haven’t watched Eps 13 and 14 and I can’t find it in myself to get excited any more. Where did all the happy, sappy, sweet lovestruck scenes we all expected go? The previews for this drama were so promising that I truly feel sorry for the entire cast at how everything just descended into this gloomy cryfest. Did YEH and LDG know how heavyhearted they are turning their viewers into every Monday-Tuesday night?

    It’s depressing.

  4. is the writer a jyh’s fan? I can’t believe how she destroy jyh’s improvement in his acting skills . this can happen when you have idol’s fans annoying all the time . SHE’S THE WORST WRITER IN KDRAMAS HISTORY !!!!

    • She didn’t destroy his improvement his character might be frustrating right now but that doesn’t take away from the fact that he’s played it really well. Is like hating on the actress that plays future mirae because her character is annoying..

  5. LOL, haven’t been this disappointed in a drama since Fashion King. Since I’ve already learned the lesson about keeping up with a drama even if it’s sinking fast, I put aside MHIYD about 3 weeks ago, and only have been keeping up with the recaps.

    • I guess you haven’t seen Big starring Gong Too?! It was BIG alright; a Big let down. One thing I can take away from this MHIYD experience is that I’ve become a Lee Dong Gun fan.

    • She’s the only reason I read Koalas recap, I’m not liking any character except her and Oppa. So I hope an awesome future for her with or without Se Joo. I trust she will success in her future by her own merits.

    • i second that…and since a couple of episodes ago, i’m hoping that YK wouldn’t end up with SJ because he does not deserve her.

      • YK is better off alone than being with SJ. How come he’s still busy wooing Mi Rae and napping at her house when his company is not doing well? I bet the one who is not faithful in the future is Se Joo. Well at least YK’s future is well off compared to miserable, bitter, old Mi Rae. Anyway, I completely understand why YK in the future took over YBS and other companies. She’s a capable woman. She’s a better version of Miranda because she has humanity. Miranda dreamed to be the wife of CEO and took over his company and she did. So what’s wrong with YK? If she can do it, why not?

  6. The writer needs to go sit on a corner and really think about what she has done to four characters that had so much potential and to the four good actors that played them. At different points of this drama I have hated each one of this characters’ actions and sometimes even the characters.

  7. You really do need to actually date before you propose you’d think. She just had her heart broken. Nobody ever need to tell me he cares about her feelings. He doesn’t. It’s all about his feelings and ego. He pretty obviously wants to get to her while shes feeling low.

  8. I at least expected this episode to start heading towards a resolution at this point, but to my dismay, it’s angst after angst, issues after issues, moping after moping to no end. I feel that they should have just ended it here because it’s too depressing. I’m sure the writer is going to rush the ending at the cost of the story while sacrificing the talents of the four leads. A drama that had so much potential, but wasted due to lack of vision by the writer. They should have marketed this as a Makjang drama rather than a rom-com. Big sigh…

  9. OMFG, writer Hong Ji Ah (1 sister who wrote king 2 hearts)or what ever her name is should stick to writing with her sister and to NEVER write a drama alone again.

    Whis is what I think she should have done:

    FMR should have come and gone by at least ep 2 & told all 4 leads their future, so then they could change their own futures themselves and live happily ever after.

    So we could all actually watch a rom com (with many kisses from both OTPs) and not what ever the hell of a genre this drama was.

    SUCH A WASTE TO HAVE YOON EUN HYE and LEE DONG GUN.

    WRITER HONG NEEDS TO STICK TO WRITING WITH HER SISTER.

  10. OMG this was a lovely recap for this episode. I agree with everything said here, about the brave KIMSHIN,YK and Mirae; the super clingy/ pushover PSJ and the annoying FMR. We might get the OTP ending but its true, the journey to the end of this drama has been so dreadful, it was hardly enjoyable, all the expectation has died overtime, I don’t understand how the writer wants to tie rest of the story in two episodes.

  11. LDG and YEH = CHEMISTRY OVERLOAD! So sad to note that the writer didn’t use this fully. Two beautiful and amazing actors. Hope to be seeing them again in a good and well-written drama.

  12. This is such a crap drama. After 14 eps, we are told all the time travel does not change anything but the moment future Mi Rae travel back, current Mi Rea is her own person. The writer has successfully mess round with the lives of the cast in this drama even more than future Mi Rea has in the drama. LDG’s come back drama after army service, he lands such a rubbish drama with. Hope we can see themboth in another much better written romance drama.

  13. And this is why I’ve stopped watching this drama and just kept reading the recaps many episodes ago. If it weren’t for YEH and LDG I probably would have skipped the recaps as well. Sigh, what an utter waste of talent!

  14. So I just saw some stills for next episode and I just realized something (I think, I hope I’m not wrong). YooKyung is wearing the yellow jacket that SeJoo chose, so when he bought jackets for the whole team and he says “I think she will look good in yellow” or something along those lines it was just the assumption that he was talking about Mirae but is YK wearing the jacket, so could it be a hint that he was talking/thinking about YK. It made me think back at all the previous scenes with those two and even though he has been quite persistent with Mirae his actions towards YK have proved that he has an interest on her (getting upset when she sees her at the bar, then getting worried about her being with those guys, going to her house to see her after he can’t get in touch with her, and now the jacket thing). So could it be that the writer has actually been giving us hints about this and that he has actually fallen for YK but has not realized this due to his preteen crush on Mirae? I think the only reason why he keeps being persistent with Mirae is because he sees her so miserable and doesn’t know the story behind her and Kim Shin, so far he thinks that Kim Shin is dating someone else and is just being a jerk to her, thus his reason for trying to stay close to her and protect her.

    Writer, I’m giving you one last chance, I swear don’t let us down >.<

    • My thoughts too, the reason Seju is finding it hard to completely let her go is the fact that Mirae is so miserable right now. Seju is not just a guy who wants to be loved by Mirae, but he’s also her friend. Do people expect him to just stay away from her while seeing her crying/being miserable? It’d be inconsistent with the character.

      • I would 100% agree with you if he didn’t pull out a stupid ring in the end. That is not “trying to comfort a friend”.

      • Hanging around as a friend is cool. But that’s not really what he is doing. he is talking about his feelings. How he needs her. How she understands him. And please explain how the ring can be justified. If he wasn’t mostly portrayed as a good guy I’d find his actions creepy and controlling. Taking advantage of someone going through a rough time is how he comes across

      • It’s a Friendship Ring. He’s saying, “Could we be friends forever and ever?”

        Just keep saying that over and over and you’ll feel better. It’s the only way to stop yourself from losing your mind.

    • I also think that way, that seju choose yellow color not for mi rae but yoo kyung.
      he thinks that he loves mirae, but actually he just care or has sympathy for her.
      ouuchh 2 more episodes and I can’t see how this drama will give a happy ending for us.
      please writer-nim, don’t make uri yonghwa so depressed just for 1 girl

    • ahhhh…. I’m not taking the bait. I think most of us watching can see the writer ‘reaching’ to solidify a connection between SYK and SJ but the disaster that is Future Mi Rae has really did her job well. I have no interest in the second leads love affair cause I barely care for the OTP’s at the moment. I wonder who Oppa met and was texting? lol

  15. I dropped this awhile ago as I have been all year dropping dramas that I have been disappointed in. And so many had some of my favorite actors in it. Such a waste of talent on crappy writing. It’s the same reasons time and time again.

    LDG – aargh why did they have to do this to your character?!

    The other three… I can’t even… The poor actors.

    • Yeah, it’s a shame how crappy the plot(including Future Mirae) is because I really like how she wrote the 4 characters (mostly).

  16. i think the original written drama of the writer is supposed to be for yoon eunhye and jung yonghwa,i remember an article that jyh is one of the most favored celebrity males wanted by writers in korea to be the lead in their drama no.3 over all and yoon eunye’s manager is somewhat a fan of jung yonghwa who attended their concert in 2011 if my memory serves me right,maybe fnc jung yonghwa and lee donggun agency wants a comeback for lee donggun whose not been active for five years and they had an agreement to the writer that the story must been re written to make lee donggun as the lead but not overshadow jung yonghwa or lee donggun as the lead but their is a twist at the end,and made the written drama into this,i maybe wrong but it make sense

    • I know many girls love jyh , but is he an actor? noooo he needs to improve to deserve a male lead, this proyect was the first step to becoming an actor, but he needs a lot of hard work .

      • yes it’s his priviledged to work next to yoon eun hye,lee donggun,han chae ah and other senior actors, he is not full pledged actor but he debut first as an actor before a singer in korea.

      • it is not his first step as an actor. he debuted as an actor before a singer. this is his 3rd drama. but of course it is really a privilege to work with great senior actors. good thing many people are starting to like his acting

      • this is the 3rd drana to jyh but this doesn’t make him an actor . he needs a lot of work . I watched all his dramas that’s why I think he needs improve many things. I’m not a fan, I’m not a hater either just a person who loves dramas I want to see him become a great actor if he wants maybe he prefers to singing.

    • @sunshine, maybe your theory is right. fnc wanted to re-introduce lee donggun since he is MIA in 5 years. but i think the timing in this drama is so out of place, if she is gonna make mirae and sejoo to be together at the ending, i think its too late. should not force them in remaining 2 episodes, should be done earlier, probably starting ep 6 or 7

      • maybe that’s why i don’t blame the writer if their’s a twist or not at the ending,i think she has done the effort to appeace both characters.

      • That’s the big mistake of the writer , she must writes for the viewers not to please a character or his fans ,she completely lost the horizon and sacrificed two good actors , a story with a lot of potencial, romance , comedy in othet words killed her own proyect.

  17. I just checked the ratings for this week , it’s official this drama was shot by the writer.Apparently korean viewers turned their back on this drama , like many peolple in the web. RIP MARRY HIM IF YOU DARE , Thank you dear writer for ruining my year .You really disappoint me . Poor cast I can’t imagine how they are feeling in this moment. I wish you success in your next proyect you deserve it, and don’t forget avoid that evil writer.

    • Obviously Koreans have a good taste! I still can’t believe why so many people still wondering why this drama rating is so low, talking about denial.

  18. You have a point. But i think most people only watching this because of jyh and yeh. I am one of them. I’d given up on the story already, i just want to see them together in a scene. That’s enough for me 😉

  19. As usual, very well said Koala~!
    I feel very bad that this show turned into this. It was very promising and bright at first. Now I’m only watching it for Lee Dong-gun’s flawless acting and Yoo-kyung. Ms. Writer should have asked for her sister’s help. *sighs deeply*
    Geez, I hope LDG would work with YEH again in a genuine rom-com drama/movie again. Their chemistry is reallyyyyy good. 🙂

    • yeah and away from any idols as second lead plss 😐 I can’t believe they wasted this chance! it’s hard to get a second chance to couple LDG and YEH in a second drama but I really wish that this happens again!

      • Idols as second leads? Yonghwa is doing a good job, I really liked him in this role. And him being an “idol” has nothing to do with his character. That’s all on the writer, she killed this story pretty much.

      • I know that he improved a lot on acting as the only drama I watched him in it was you are beautiful beside this, but what I’m talking about is the idols fans or may I say stan! I hate how they act cause they like their oppa so much so they bash others! and I have seen my fair share to say that! and I’m not generalizing, plus I hate how they took over the actual actors places, they are just everywhere! good or not!
        and I know that the writer is the reason this drama sucked!

  20. Wow! A lot of negative stuff being written in these comments. I have to say Koala that I am sorry the show is disappointing you so much. It is flawed – Yes! It had greater potential – Yes! But I still see some great things in it and I rather enjoyed this episode. It ircks me that so many negative posts listed above are from people that admit they are only reading the recaps and then they blast the show – not taking into account that you are writing from a heavily biased point of view. I love you. Love your work. AND 90% of the time I agree with completely but I can’t help but feel that your expectations for this show were perhaps too high and your disappointment so strong that it make you a little less objective than I know you can be. I loved the scene at there house for dinner with Se Jo. I loved the scenes between Oppa and Shin. I find the fact that the meddling didn’t change her own life in the least fascinating. I don’t see FMR as completely evil. I think her telling Shin that it was her fault was a kindness on her part to make him feel better – but it takes two to ruin a marriage and we know how stubborn he can be so we know he was no saint! She was tryting to leave giving him hope and I think that was sweet and very much in keeping with Mi Rae’s character. I still HATE that her brother doesn’t trust her enough to tell her about the surgery – treating her like she can’t handle it. It is no wonder she has always lacked confidence in herself when the only one around her thinks so little if her. On the whole this show has made me think and question and I care about all of the characters and so I am happy. I just wish that coming here (a place I often feel is a sanctuary) that I didn’t feel so all alone.

    • In my case, I don’t think the disappointment is necessarily how the characters are molded and shaped to be who they are. The writer definitely managed to provide a good set up on them. It’s the lack of romantic interaction of the leads and 2nd leads, sure there is growth in the process, but the story focused so much in making the reason of FMR’s coming back from the future such a mystery that the narrative just dragged. In addition, the writer went on rabbit trails that had no narrative value whatsoever when she could have portrayed better interaction between the leads. By episode 14 Se Joo is still proposing to Mirae, new challenges in regards to the corporate leadership for Se Joo, no answer as to why Se Joo is so inclined to be with Mi Rae while in the initial timeline he and Yu Kyung were married, no resolution to the convoluted relationship between Mi Rae and Shin, no changes in the future despite FMR’s meddling, and yet there’s only two more episodes to go. Unless the network adds on more episode to this drama, the writer would just be rushing to tie things up in two episode which will depreciate the narrative value. So my disappointment is on the writer who seem to let her story go out of hand.

    • You are the rare % of viewers that like to show. High expectations, I dont think anyone is even expecting that anymore. We just dont want to be disappointed after each chapter. You can have your voice but there are a good reason by drama watchers knows what they like or do not like. You can support this drama but just keep Koala’s opinion out of your comments. Koala set up this blog to write about her thoughts and she never even force anyone to agree with her. You can choose not to but who are you to tell her how biased her comments are?
      Feel alone? Why do you need everyone to agree with you just so you do not feel alone. You are your own person, you need to have your own voice, why should other’s disagreement make you feel alone? Just be strong on your own and do not expect others to agree with you just so you can feel you are accepted this community. Koala is not going to ban you from this site because you do not agree with her. Just learn to accept everyone is entitled to their opinion. It may be different from you but it is not a bad thing. If you feel lonely, find another blog that shares your opinion. It may be very hard but not impossible.

  21. Just want to say I KNEW when Seju equated Mirae to a shiny toy car, it was a bad omen. I KNEW it.

    We’re almost at the end and he still doesn’t realise his one-sided pursuit of Mirae is, ironically, perfectly summed up by his own analogy.

  22. Damn I was looking forward for this drama because of yoon eun hye the queen of romantic comedies. I guess I need to pass this one.

  23. I am a bit out of my depth here. I haven’t watched any time travel drama so while expecting some rules, there weren’t any in this one or i could not fathom one. What do does the time cop mean when with ‘nothing changes’. Does it mean that the FMR cannot undo her past. but for the current MR and Shin they may not follow FMR’s past as by coming back, she/FMR has changed it for them? No change — meaning opposite to how she wants it changed; therefore, as it was with her/FMR past? What keeps me on is LDG – great acting! Keep it up and hope to see more of you on my screen.

  24. Once again I find myself agreeing with pretty much everything you’ve said, especially about the show as a whole. My only slight quibble is that I wish you had not been so soft on Evil Hag Ahjumma. I seethe with rage and revulsion when she’s on screen, and so for me I would have been very happy to see your comments about her ramped up several notches. Apart from that, though, I am very, very grateful to read your recaps, because it’s refreshing to find a fellow YEH fan who is honest about the Drama, warts and all. THANK YOU!

    • Totally agree with you. I hate Ahjumma; was so happy to see her leave, and then…. NOOOOOOOOO. I don’t even want to watch her (presumably) try to set things right with SHin and Mirae.

  25. This drama is an utter waste of talented cast! Although I want sejoo and mr together just coz I like them both. But it’s so sad that the writer has caused such crap ratings. Hope these cast will select better scripts next time.

  26. The writer managed to suck the romance and comedy out of a RomCom, how does that happen? Did she actually think the story through?

  27. I have to agree that the writer basically screwed up the pacing of the drama, and that she’s not clear who is supposed to be the lead in this drama. As a result, I just can’t care for Kim Shin (even until now) as he’s just running away from the issue instead of facing it and solving it. Even an almost perfect character like Se Joo is also ruined in the last 2 episodes where he’s still trying to win Mirae’s heart. New developments like his handling of the company are written in only in the 3rd last episode which really leaves me to wonder how the writer intend to address all these in the remaining 2 episodes? It has indeed been a frustrating journey as the talents of all the actors are wasted.

  28. One scene stood out, unexpected but very welcome. Oppa and Shin at dinner out and Oppa with such ease tells him about his impending surgery. The fact that he is able to tell this to Shin , and no one else, even though it is very matter-of-fact, says a lot about how Oppa perceives Shin even though hes always at loggerheads with him. I loved it.

    See Joo had made Mi Rae his latest shiny new toy car to conquer and only Yookyung can give him one hard verbal punch to put him in his place. You cant toy with one-sided-love See Joo and the sooner he is made to realize this the better. Mi Raeneeds to be less soft and uncertain in his presence. Why isn’t she putting her foot down, instead letting him hold hands and propose.

    Yookyung, she is so damn honest with herself and others, absolutely no two timing for her. She accepts loss, rejection with such guts and grace. The actress Chae-Ah has embodied this character such that she makes her complete and not just a secondary weakling. Shes amazing. Would really like to see her in a full blow romantic comedy, or crime comedy movie. Her facial expressions are just a delight to watch.

  29. I actually liked this drama despite how much the author of this article hated it. I don’t really care at all what anyone thinks, I loved this drama! “Misery” and “mind-numbing weariness”?? Pleeeeease! That’s your opinion, so speak for yourself. This is my opinion too. Anyway, if you weren’t enjoying it up until this point, I suggest you make this your last review and stop watching the show. You don’t HAVE to watch lol. No one is forcing you. I have a hunch people will hate this entire comment. Go on and hate a comment that goes against the grain lol. It won’t change my opinion. Also, it’s just a show. Move on already and watch something new lol. Have a nice day 🙂

    • The blogger can write whatever she wants on her blog. She paid for her blog and she own her blog. You on the other hand can leave her blog and not read it. She never says everyone has to agree with her. She does not stop others who disagree with her to leave their comments. But telling her how and what she should do in her blog is pure rudeness. She allows others to leave comments because she knows everyone have their own opinion and she is willing to allow others to their thoughts. That is what a community is about. Why do you have to be so rude in someone’s blog? She open the comments page to allow others to be open about their opinions. There is never once she dictated her readers have to agree with her. Who are you to do that on her blog?

  30. No kiss at this point . Is yoon eun hye in love? or just the writer hates her .all people around the world from korea to argentina are waiting at least the kiss scene between kim shim and mirae .

  31. can somebody time travel and change some of the plots. true..it started off with good opening and expectations were quite high on whole but after epi 8 and 9, everything was sort draggy and is quite difficult to go through another epi. initially, i wanted it so much that it is psj+mr but now things are like…what the heck….i think i am stopping at epi 10 and perhaps just read the recap of epi 16 when i can come back to it. dont really watch lots of korean but i only watch what is worthy of but this……….kind of disappointing.
    anyway this drama doesn’t excite me anymore but instead exited me.i am still pining for a psj+mr but then…mr + ks…..argh……
    choice of actors=thumbs up but story line and plots=needs improvement
    koala-thanks for the recaps ….i like your work…..keep it up

  32. already finished 16eps and still cant get it. i need to read ur recap in order to understand this miserable drama wasted LDG’s act. and Yong Hwa the idol,please stay as a singer. already 3dramas and ur wasting ur time. not a hater just a common viewer.

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