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Da Mo Yao Chapter 20: Deflowered — 90 Comments

  1. @_@ okay i did NOT expect there would really be deflowering scenes… or… getting to it soooo FAST (since there hasn’t been much bodycontact so far….

    heheh ok off to read this baby ^^

    Thnx for the chap!!!

    • LOVE this chapter!!! I really think Jiu Ye DOESN’T deserve her… being this evasive, vague and pushing her away in the past. I don’t like men like that… no matter in whatever century they live in xP We need more HQB in this world: brave, direct and honest. No games! Mi like xD
      I really hope that she will find her true love for him, that she will stick to her choice wholeheartedly and that her heart won’t waver when (/if) she finds out that Jiu Ye did have a change of heart… last minute -____- and was looking for her… he missed his chance, he had the upper hand with his previous timing and now the fated moment of them being together just passed… I don’t think Jiu Ye can make her happy the way HQB can cuz she’s just sooo different and not herself around Jiu Ye. He’s just too intimidating of a person for her.

      ooooooooooooh and i’m gonna be sooooo disappointed if it turns out that HQB will die young so that Jin Yu will end up with Jiu Ye :S … just a thought that popped up in my mind… but it still makes me ishhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh xP

      anywho, thank you so much again for this chapter! whatever the casting may be… luckily for us we can imagine the right faces for each character while reading these chapters for ourselves right now. Nothing that Tangren can do to change that xP

    • Actually I feel they Hv been prolong it like forever….

      He has benn hugging her n holding hands w her like forever. Plus he saw her naked :p plus the almost kissing scene.

      I feel tat both of them has been very intimate throughout vol 2. It’s just that HQB still unsure of YE feeling. Thus his question of whether she has ever feel concern or ache for him. Which she confirm.

      But part of my heart ache for Jiu Ye 🙁

      • well there has always been something going on between the two… but the contacts have been quite innocent, sometimes unintended. And after that the sudden rush of feeling fades immediately… for Jin Yu anyways (at least, that is how i read it..)… it doesn’t really linger for her?

        And i feel like it has been almost-touches mostly… Like almost kissing, almost real hugging (each other) or holding hands (and not him taking her hand forcingly while she tries to loosen his hold).

        but i am glad we’re passed the almost touches ^^ now indeed if only Jiu Ye is really out of her aching heart…

  2. I have been checking this site every half hour since I got home from school (homework? what I know not what that is). Thank you so much! I am fascinated with this novel, and so grateful for your translations. 🙂

  3. Thanks Koala. I was feeling frustrated with your previous post about DMY casting news and a little worry about your motivation with translation. But I am happy now. Hope you are too.

  4. Finally yayyyy They made out… 🙂
    Thank you very much Ms K!!!
    Yes I second you Ms K about Hu Ge as HQB…
    Yeah screw you – Tangren!

  5. They’re perfect together. This chapter settles it, I’m addicted to HQB/Yu Er…

    Thanks so much for continuing the translation!!

  6. Thanks koala this is my new official crack of the day.

    Regarding how things end up i still feel a bit conflicting. Yu Er still has Jiu Ye in her heart and at this point I don’t feel much love from her toward hqb. I wonder his much of the sex factor in her decision to marry him. I don’t think Yu Er is quite there yet with her feeling toward hqb and I had hoped that she decided to marry him because she love undeniably and utterly in love with him rather than choosing him as a last way to perhaps obtain the happiness she was seeking for

    • Good point! I wasnt thoroughly sold on her love for HQB either (though i truly wish she does). Yu Er had clearly identified her feelings for Jiu Ye from the moment she saw him in Chang An and had the chance to slowly build up her feelings and “business” for him in over a year. (please correct me if i’m wrong bout the timeline.)

      As for HQB, she only ever saw him as an annoying, touchy-feely buddy. i’d like to think that if Yu Er met HQB first instead of JY, she would have done exactly the same things for HQB as she did for JY. But at the same time, she would be at a disadvantage in the relationship. We know that Yu Er is the type to give her all for the one she loves. She read Zhuang Zi and Mo Zi because she saw JY reading it and built her business and alliances based on the advantages it would bring to Shi Enterprise. She was demure and restrained whenever she was around Jiu Ye although she does retain part of her playful self. If she met had HQB first, i dont think she’d be the feisty, spunky Yu Er we now know. Maybe she would have done everything to please him and thus suppressed her real personality. And the feminist in me would be up in arms and burning Tonghua’s underwear! XD

      By starting of as bickering buddies, Yu Er and HQB became candid and honest with each other. Through time they had come to accept and compliment each others personalities as well. It wouldnt be far off to say that they had shown each other their true self and see each other as they are.

      Hopefully we’ll get to see Yu Er start falling head over heels for HQB in the coming chapters. A mutual love that’s equally passionate and giving from both partners is the best love story! ^^ HQB will only be too eager to help Yu Er fall in love with him. kekeke

      On the other hand…Yu Er will be up against Li Yan when she returns to Chang An as HQB’s wifey. Aaarrgghhh……i’m getting a feeling of dread thinking of the upcoming conflicts and battle she would be engaged in. If HQB and Yu Er’s love could bloom in the desert in the middle of various wars, then i’m sure they wouldnt have much problems falling deeper in love when other conflicts are thrown in in Chang An…right? RIGHT??

      • Hmm~ It certainly didn’t cross my mind that Yu-er personality is affected by either men in her life to that much extend. Good point!

        Perhaps because Yu-er has always been portrayed as independent and headstrong that I thought she is her own person no matter who she is with. This situation remind me of this quote (albeit sarcastically) I saw on facebook. “Don’t get confused between my personality and my attitude. My personality is who i am, my attitude depends on who you are”
        So Yu-er was never a different person. She has the same personality but just more mature thoughts. And her attitude change when she’s around Jiu Ye, but she never hide who she really is. She read the books he like and act the way she think he prefer. But she love him in HER own way. Remember when Jiu Ye want to take care of her, she’s like “NO, i’ll be the big tree that take care of YOU!”

        When she’s around HQB, i wouldnt say she’s her TRUE self. I would say each man has a way to draw out different aspect of her. She’s feisty and HQB ignite the fire in her. Jiu Ye is calm and deep like the sea; around him, she become more collected, deep and screwed.
        All in all, it’s all her. Different men may affect her by drawing different response, but Yu-er is Yu-er.

        At this point, i would say Yu-er is emotionally connect to JiuYe but physically attracted to HQB. Her emotional attached with Jiu Ye led her to an emotional meltdown a couple chapter back. Her physical attraction toward to HQB led to This Chapter.

        So i guess what disappoint me was the fact that Yu-er decide to marry HQB after the ‘deed’. I guess the modern feminist mentality in me want her to say “hold on, i know we did that but i need sometime out to figure out where my heart lies.” or something to that extend. I would like her to say ‘yes’ to HQB because her heart is also with him rather than her using him as an escape to find happiness. Her thought when she said yes sound to me like, “okay, i was hurt enough, my papa, wolf brother and jiu ye is gone, he is my last chance to happiness so i’ll bet on it.”

      • @Annie I think you are in my head as you have articulated everything I was thinking Thanks!

        Do you think she will regret saying yes too soonas right now HQB is like her rebound guy?

      • @Annie

        Your reply was certainly food for thought and I love your analysis of Jin Yu’s interactions with both male leads!

        I agree that it’d have been perfect if Jin Yu had accepted HQB’s proposal purely because she loves him, but I don’t think she accepted just for the sake of wanting to be happy, because he does have a place in her heart – she just wasn’t aware of it! As HQB mentioned earlier in the chapter, her actions showed that she does indeed care for him. Just that for now, his position in her heart is overshadowed by Jiu Ye, in the next chapter though, we’ll get to see that overturned!! So yay!

        Besides, I also think that the author is trying to create a parallel between Jin Yu and Li Yan. Unlike Li Yan who is unable to let go of her past (the tragic legacy her mom left to her), who suffered a sad end, Jin Yu is the other side of the coin where one chooses of her free will to let go and be happy.

      • I like your statement on personality vs attitude, Annie. i think it holds true for most of us (with the exception of posers and desperate lime-light chasers.) We react differently to different people in different circumstances so its pretty hard to determine what could or couldnt be. It could also be true that everything happens somewhere. “The trousers of time” (quote from Terry Pratchett’s Discworld) hahahaha.

        But at the same time, it takes a very confident person to be true to his/herself and not be swayed by others to change/hide/suppress the way they are. In Yu Er’s case, i felt that she suppressed herself to an extend to be more pleasing in Jiu Ye’s eyes. Not that its a bad thing as she’s quite rash, come to think of it. But it just irks me when she acts demure around him.

        I feel the same way as you bout Yu Er’s consent to marry Huo Qu Bing. It would have been nice (and probably HOT! ^^ ) if she didnt agree immediately. You know…keeping their distance whilst Yu Er seriously sorts out on her thoughts and feelings bout Jiu Ye and HQB. She’s definitely still checked-in at heartbreak rehab and if she asked, i’m sure HQB would give her some breathing space. I’d love to see Yu Er slowly come to realize her love for HQB. And whilst they wait and ponder…imagine all that restrain both of them have to go through….them doing the ‘virtual tango’ around each other as they circle their feelings and try to navigate/ignore/scoot/tip-toe around the ‘pink elephant’ that is their one-night stand. hahahahah.

        I wrote a long explanation on how Yu Er’s consent could be viewed from another perspective but after scrutinizing it, i’m aghast at how long winded i am. hahahaha. But to put it shortly, love is a leap of faith. And Yu Er has decided to take that leap with HQB. Instead of agonizing over her lose and lamenting her sadness, Yu Er has decided to let go and love again. Granted, it could also be seen as a knee-jerk response to rebound. I’d pick the ‘virtual tango’ though. XD

    • I agree with you.

      I looked into Brother Wolf’s eyes and smiled “Yes.”
      When you’re accepting a man’s proposal, you look him in the eyes, not at another’s eyes. She was looking at Brother Wolf’s eyes, who was wishing for her happiness like Papa, as she said “yes.” So in many ways, it was more like a yes to a possible happiness, a new hope, a new road, and moving on, not to HQB himself. She still feels for Jiu Ye, but she recognizes that she can entrust herself to HQB, who absolutely loves and adores her.

      I can’t wait for the angst and internal conflicts! My speculations: She will feel confused pretty soon after returning to Chang Ah as she is forced to face between former affection and new passion. There will probably be fights too but I bet the fights will be crackling with chemistry. And then Yu’er will definitely fall in love with HQB!! GARR. Can’t wait.

      • “I can’t wait for the angst and internal conflicts! My speculations: She will feel confused pretty soon after returning to Chang Ah as she is forced to face between former affection and new passion. There will probably be fights too but I bet the fights will be crackling with chemistry. And then Yu’er will definitely fall in love with HQB!! GARR. Can’t wait”

        Agreed!! This is exactly where I believe we are going. I can’t wait!
        Also, Yu Er’s strong physical & passionate chemistry with HQB is an important sign that when she finally does fall utterly and completely in love with HQB (which is obviously a given, can this man be any more perfect?) It will be the all consuming kind of love. The kind you can never move on from, the kind that no one can make you forget, a love that essentially becomes a part of Yu Er’s being. This kind of explosive love is very different from the one she feels for Jiu Ye which although emotionally poignant, is definitely not the all consuming kind.

        Now, the process & journey Yu Er makes in getting there with all the conflicts, angst, romance & passion will be a delight to read!!!
        Can you imagine the impact of a love of this kind felt by both HQB & Yu Er at the SAME TIME!! OMG OMG OMG!!

        Thank you for continuing Ms Koala!

    • great analysis, my sentiments exactly!

      my thoughts on this are that boy am i glad the OTP is HQB & YE. coz even as i find physical & emotional attraction equally as important, im pretty sure her great physical attraction(which comes in spades) & some emotional attachment to HQB definitely beats the great emotional attachment & some physical attraction she feels for JY.

  7. So happy Yu Er got to meet Brother wolf and his family. I just hope they remain safe and sund despite the war in their territory. I am not sure about the proposal as the girl clearly still has feelings for Jiu Yu which she hasn’t resolved yet but I know HQB will try to make her happy.

    Not happy about the drunken deflowering I would have thought their first time would me more romantic.

    • It was definitely not romantic, but it had a lot of passion, which imo is what Yu’er needs. She basically closed off her heart so it would literally take years before she would completely let HQB (or any person for that matter) in her heart again. This union between a man and a woman, this physical connection full of passion is the catalyst to their emotional union. As she said “My heart was so cold, and I wanted this heat…” I think that when a woman is binded to a man physically, her heart barrier would at least be down a little. (I’m excluding the extreme and/or modern cases. I am just talking generally…in those ancient times.) Plus, HQB is super good to her and loves her so much. From the beginning, she responded to HQB more strongly and had more chemistry with him. She will fall in love with HQB no matter what (it would just take longer), so this physical connection is only a catalyst, and arguably what she needs for her cold heart. I speculate that some chapters down the line, there will be a more romantic scene, as Tong Hua would not just leave it like this.
      OMG. I can’t wait.

      • Also, HQB really understands Yu’er (sometimes more than herself) and Yu’er can be herself around him. Yay, more evidence that their love is more than just physical.

      • haha just wait, there will be a much hotter and romantic ‘first’ night together coming up in later chapters =)

  8. Thank you for this chapter ! Yes ! finally , they are a couple …happy for HQB and Yu er , but poor Jiu Ye …I can’t wait till he finally knows about our main couple ….I’m eager to read more about the adventures of Yu Jin and HQB …. ockoala , fighting !!! * off to work *

  9. Yippee ki yo ki yay!

    Let’s out a big sigh. I’m glad that’s over with.

    She agreed to marry him.

    I love this couple.

    Thank you~~~~

  10. I’m not going to lie; I’m a total GeShi shipper and I need them to be the ones in this scene. I hate TR, unless of course it is GeShi, then I love TR.

  11. i haven’t read a romance novel that made my heart ache and race for over a decade. This is absolutely awesome!

    Thanks so much for this chapter, Koala~chan! You’re not the only one who has immortalized Hu Ge as HQB in your heart~~♥

    Yay!! More shenanigans to come for our OTP!

  12. I haven’t read the chapter but just wanna say thanks a million for not abandoning DMY – I was just refreshing the page just out of curiosity … Ha4 xxx I hv been richly rewarded !!!!
    Have a fantastic day Koala unnie !!

  13. Love this chapter (except the title); love baby wolf; love the unsure HQB in the morning after; and absolutely love HQB’s unbridled joy when she agreed to marry him. Soooo cute!!

    I hope that when teens see this screen on TV, I hope some will reflect on HQB’s proposal of marriage. I’m not referring to the act of proposal after a night together, but that his intentions are honorable. If HQB is a hero, than I hope he can positively influence others to be honorable.

    Although Jin Yu is still somewhat at a crossroad at this point, I am so proud that she is bravely moving on in life. HQB probably knows it too but from what we know of him, it hasn’t matter before, it will not matter now because he will work his damn hardest to make her love him equally. Swoon! Where can I find or order another HQB? I need one desperately.

    • But if you think about it, he didn’t just propose after they did the ‘deed’. He proposed before it already, and the ‘deed’ just sealed.

  14. thank you thank you for continuing!!

    it came so fast that i was like huh? along with other…wished it was more non drunken state of mind when the first time were to happen. that way she is more certain of her feelings for him even though it’s buried inside her heart just waiting to sprout out. she alrdy started to worry about him. she’s slowing letting go and get there herself.

    it could or would of been better if they waited? maybe. maybe not.

    and the proposal…*sigh* why afterwards and not before too? (just gotta LOL) i just really hope that she didn’t said yes becas of the circumstance, losing MJ, her pigeons and her brother wolf started a family plus coming back to XN brings all old memories back too.

    I hope it doesn’t come back to bite her…. it will right? i read a spoiler that because of what HQB concealed about MJ looking for her will create tension btwn them?

    let’s see what’s next. … waiting for the epic mtg betw them and ZXY… sorry … LOL to lazy to verify the correct initials.

    again thanks ms. koala! xoxo

    • He did voice out his intention to marry her before ‘deflowered’ scene.

      When I read the title, i literally scream out of joy. TH couldn’t Possibly er… Lol . This is not going to be somewhere like mills n boon? Luckily its not. Lol I am mumbled jumbled the whole thing.

      Off to read again.

  15. As good as she is with Jiu Ye, the chemistry between Jin Yu and HQB had always been undeniable. From now on, it’s straight on ahead with our OTP. Can’t wait for the marriage!

    Also, the reunion between brother wolf and Jin Yu were so cute! Now the only reunion I’m anticipating is the one between YZX and Jin Yu.

    Thank you for continue translating, despite the issue going on around the drama casting. THANK YOU!

  16. Truly not expecting this chapter given all the turmoil you’ve gone through these past 24 hours. Thank you for perseverance. Your translation is so vivid.

    That Yu Er still thinks of her first love is understandable. I don’t know exactly how much time has lapsed since Yu Er left Chang An, but her break-up is still relatively recent. HQB is the perfect antidote for her. On the otherhand, I am eagerly anticipating Yu Er’s “reunion” with YZX.

  17. Lol. actually, the first time I read this. I interpreted the title as “losing oneself” with my limited chinese so I wasn’t spoiled. ^^”””
    I know people are not so keen about drunken scenes. I’m not as well but is it bizarre of me to think this chapter was written just right? Especially the morning after. But even the build-up was written right imo.
    Tank

  18. you would not believe how happy i am to see that chapter….i have not read it yet but i’m just happy to see that Tangren’s stupid mistake …………has not dampened your spirits….to me it’ll be the same…..i’m already seeing Hu Ge as HBQ…..so it does not matter to me !!! Hwaiting ~!!! THANKS FOR THE TRANLSATIONS!!!

  19. I think finaly jiu ye doesnt have a chance to make out with yu er.
    Though im sad,coz im a jiu ye and yu er shipper, but yu er deserve a happiness and maybe just hqb can give it to her.
    And can wait for the next chapter after they became couple and im ready to find out jiu ye’s reaction of this news.

    • I think finaly jiu ye doesnt have a chance to make out with yu er.

      What do you mean? Because of his disability? I’m sure the act can be done without functional legs…

  20. Hahahaha “Deflowered” lmao. That’s the best word ever.
    Gaaah. My heart is torned in two. I got my pitch fork ready for when they announce that Hu Ge will not be playing HQB. I liked Jiu Yu’s character from the beginning… But if Hu Ge *taps on wood* plays him… My heart for Jiu Ye will totally break into millions of pieces. Anyways…. They totally did that backwards. *coughcough* not complaining though. Wish Tong Hua described it with a bit more detail. Ex: “HQB eagerly started to undress her,” Oh hehehehe.. =__= I sound like a pervert. Moving on~ @___@ please tell me they live happily ever after. Even if it’s a lie, please tell me so. I don’t think my heart can take another BBJX ending.

    But awwwww HQB is so cute. He apologized hahahaha. So adorable.

  21. Thanks for sticking with the translation of DMY.

    So, now that the relationship has gone to the next level and they are subsequently engaged….let’s see what tests are thrown at our OTP….

  22. Thanks very much for the translation! Nice chapter! 😀

    I’ve decided to just enjoy the story for what it is and I totally agree with you – even if HG doesn’t end up being HQB, he can always be HQB in my head when I’m reading the book!

  23. Am I the only who squealed a little bit when he said “my wifey”?!!!!
    Geez louise, I should stop reading DMY translations in public places lest everyone will think that I lost my mind grinning like a loon while looking at my phone. 😉

    I love that:
    *HQB clearly knows her more than she knows herself.
    *He acknowledged her love for Jiu Ye and even said that “He is indeed one of those rare young men in this world.”
    *He sorta drunkenly proposed to her before they did the deed.
    *This man who is not afraid of anyone and has led thousands in battles was clearly at lost for words and was so nervous the morning after.
    *He made her repeat her “yes” one more time. And then one last time.

    Kyaaaaaaa!!!! Why so awesome, HQB?

      • Even though drunkenly… It still counts!

        I feel more excited that he said “marry me” before the act (and again the morning after) because this is just further proof (not that his love need more evidence to be proven) that he loves her so much, has every intention of winning her heart and marry her, and that his proposal the morning after is not entirely because of responsibility and honor (not that I ever doubt him).

      • @lazy goose
        Agree with you that his drunken confession is more precious. HQB even said so himself : “If I wasn’t drunk, I couldn’t possibly have spoken aloud what I just said, even if that is what I believe in my heart.”

        For me, this means he has been thinking about it for awhile (marrying her) but had to restrain himself from asking for obvious reason that she was in love with someone else. But then you know how alcohol makes us let go of our inhibitions…haha..that is certainly true for them in more ways than one!

        So yes, I actually think that their “first night” while they were both drunk is just perfect. They were clearly already heading in this direction since he found her again in the dessert, it was just a question of when. The alcohol was the final fuel to their already simmering fire. 😀

    • in law its void, not proper mental state or lucid mind….why not make a gentle man out of a general….I’m sorry analyst streak….ignore me… 😉

  24. I love the baby wolf! So cuteee~
    However, I’m worried about how things will be unveiled in Chang An…
    Li Yan will certainly become her enemy and Jiu Ye…
    Well, I guess I’ll have to put faith in Tong Hua to make it right ^o^
    Btw, thank you so much Koala-san for not leaving Da Mo Yao alone 🙂

  25. I loved this chapter, although the consumation of their relationship happened sooner than I expected (there’s like 18 chapters to go in volume 2, right?). Like other readers I’m worried that HQB is YE’s rebound from JY. Of course we all can see that she already cares for him quite a bit, but I think we all love HQB so much that we don’t want to see him hurt.

  26. thankewthankew… i marathoned through the novel coz i could no longer wait anymore but i realized that im really unable to understand more than half of what is going on..

    so iv accustomed myself to ultimately wait patiently for your translations since they’re so good! kudos to your hard work, koala =D

  27. no she was not just a woman but someone’s woman, from a girl to someone’s woman, to have one man in her life was enough…. huh well I stop here….I’m just not anymore much into anything anyway thanks for the recaps love the wolves… 😉

    • I don’t know maybe I don’t get the culture….are all women like this? I mean I don’t like a drunk partner in my most important moment, should he remeber every bit of emotions and intimacy….like hey I woke and yeah….I want the fire in your soul not your body or else we’re both masculine here….well….people really don’t connect anymore, brokeness leads to confusion and I bet she’s in that phase….I mean I’m not in love and I’m already confused…can’t I be sure on something for once in my life….MY LAMENT actually!

      • I’m sure he remembers just like how the memories rushed to her!

        “are all women like this?” Obvious answer! Of course, not all women are the same.

        And I’m sure they’ll have other times…

  28. thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    i’m still going to continue to pray that HG gets the HQB role 🙂

  29. I love how tongue tied and nervous he gets when he runs after her in the morning. Thats when you know how important it is for him to get this right with her. I can’t even handle this book it’s just too perfect! !! Thank you Koala I think this is one of the absolute best books I have ever read, if not the best……

  30. Ooooooo steamy! I love this! While I was reading Lost You Forever and waited for more, I decided to give Da Mo Yao a try today. AND I LOVE IT! Don’t get me wrong I thought this story was gonna suck, but I was wrong I’m totally into this novel BIG TIME. I’m also into the Writer of these novels, which are amazing story’s.(I love historical-Romantic novels(: ) & Koala I can’t describe how Thankful I am, I can’t imagine a better translator then you.

    Thanks Koala!!!! Lots! P.S Will you or anybody recommend any novels like these to me, I would really appreciate it Thank You! 🙂

  31. It’s obvious that HQB has been planted in her heart from the first meeting – YR had intended to seek him out when she landed initially in ChangAn. She had hoped to see him when she was brought to JY’s house. HQB similarly has been having her in his mind since their acquaintance in the desert. From the moment he sees her in ChangAn, he had been building his presence in YR’s heart, little by little, consistently, strongly. YR feels her heart race whenever HQB is near but she simply consciously choses to ignore those feelings. Given her age and experiences, she may not have ever yet known boy-girl love. Thus she actually missed many important signs that point clearly to HQB as whom she loves as a lover. What she regarded as love with JY was in fact shadows of her father in the way he cared and looked after her. Only with HQB (never JY) did YR ever described herself as feeling tingly and melting like warm chocolate!:)

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