Show Luo’s Web Famous Girlfriend Grace Chow Pens Scathing Breakup Screed Accusing Him of Cheating for the Entirety of 9 Year Relationship

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• That is a badass move right there. I love her letter. I would however, like to be enlightened on this one thing, why do women give men too much slack on cheating? She should've just highlighted his bad aspects that hurt her so much, she was cheated through all her relationship then why should she remember her good times with him? That is obviously her choice and in a relationship there are definitely good aspects too but I have seen many women do that because they can be easily maybe emotionally blackmailed by the cheater that they only love them or the girl is the only one they need in their lives. And it usually works. Such jerks never improve and it's never the girls fault for believing them but I'm trying to figure it out, are women emotionally blackmailed by such men?

  • It doesn’t matter by gender, it’s because certain people are afraid that they won’t find anyone else, someone that will value them. Also there’s the mentality that you invest so much time, that you don’t want to feel like you wasted your energy and time to your partner, so you feel you should keep at it. There’s also the mentality that you don’t want to be alone so you’re willing to endure such behaviors. There’s a million of other reasons. Letting go is hard, I know. Personally to this day I still experience heartbreak although it’s been years, and I’m still tempted occasionally to reconcile although I know it’s not healthy. But it was right for me to move on. However, I still feel lonely and haven’t completely moved on from my feelings. Maybe I’ll be like a nun and stay alone forever haha

    • Sending you virtual hugs. I hope you find the one who is made for you and you're happy with them. Otoh you're right, gender doesn't matter, there can be several reasons why people outweigh the good things with bad and choose to stay. Cheating is like stabbing in the back but loneliness, forgiveness and love helps people endure it and get over it but I think if you're still with the same person it's hard to forget and hard to not be doubtful everytime. So idk if it's worth staying. Married people, at times for kids and at times for other societal pressures choose to stay but even for non married couples there is security and a sentiment attached to a person that is hard to let go.

    • Thank you @wapz

  • I guess by listing the good points as well she seems somehow more credible? If she’d just listed the bad points a reader might think she was consumed with hate and would likely just make up anything to get him hated on?

    • Oh yeah, for a post that was very reasonable to add. If it would've been only negative comments then well netizens believe oppas more than their girlfriends. But she wrote this very well and you could feel that she meant it.

• Wow what a read !!! They are both very attractive too bad it ended this way .... why can’t people just break up with someone if you are not happy instead of cheating ..... I don’t get it ...... I hope he has learned his lesson to not mess girls about.....

  • It’s because of greed and ego. They want attention from multiple people. They want to act like emperors or empresses with harems filled with consorts to the brim.

• Unfaithful men arggggg. I’m so triggered. That’s why I can’t watch any project with slag men or women or I have to fast-forward the scenes with them in it. I want to regurgitate. I had to do that while watching monarch because of second female lead, I had to fast-forward her scenes. And that’s why I didn’t watch Mr. Sunshine. And that why I couldn’t watch The World of the Married and other related shows. I just can’t :(

  • Until today, i still don't get it why some people betray their partners and have some an affair behind them.. i mean, if you cant commit, just stop. Dont do that. Leave. Sigh. But we've got a dozen unfaithful people. Unfortunately.

    • It’s because for some they get super greedy, some of their needs are unmet, so they feel they need to venture out. They enjoy the idea of having one feet in a “committed” relationship and one feet just playing around. They want to experience both. They’re just slime.

• I 'm almost tear up. To me she sounded deeply hurt, she must have cried many nights. I also can't understand people( man and woman) , if you love that person why did you hurt him or her in that way? Now I am getting emotional.

• Nine years is a long time for a relationship nowadays. She has had enough of his cheating ways. He hasn’t got anything to lose. He is still going to be on shows in China and they weren’t married so it makes it more acceptable. Such a smart male.

• She deserves for better man not this jerk! Very lucky to leave him earlier since you are still young & pretty girl. You didnothing wrong, its not your fault for this 9 years! Good job to throw him a big slap!

• There is something I read in a book, it said to see men as "as, is" section of the IKEA store. Don't think of changing them. When you take them you are taking them as is in their state.

  Honestly everyone thinks that they can change someone, they are special, but that rarely happens and maybe that can only happen to someone who is self aware, has self esteem and wants to change himself as well. I feel sorry for her but as she said herself he isn't worth it. Go live happy you girl. One cheater out of your way!

• I love the last part...

  "if you ask me whether I regret it, I don't...
  ... Because I Loved you"
  If you ask me whether I am upset, then no. Because you aren't worth it at all"

  It encapsulates and epitomises the message that all cheaters should recieve.

  SHE is such an amaze balls human being.
  I did so many fist bumps for that.

  She lives by her choices and got the balls to cut loose and say "your loss, not mine. Goodbye jerk"

• I'm not even surprised that he's a cheater. Good for her!!

• Woooowww girl... you rock. This guy totally deserves this long letter haha. Dont think you can change a playboy.. no dear... it cant be healed.

  The last time i saw them when they posted zico's anysong challenge on his tiktok.

  He was once one of my fave Tw actors... dude... he used to date Selina, right? Good thing she didnt end up with him. But probably, he still had Selina in his heart? Lols, sorry, drama.

  Btw, Angelababy went under the knife? Didnt she and her hubby prove that she didnt? I read it somewhere...

  But everyone wants to be pretty. Show luo oh show luo, you've got pretty gf and still want another? Sigh.

  • Yes, although Show and Selina never admitted that they were dating it was like an open secret in the entertainment circle. Fortunately, she didn't end up with him. Selina and S.H.E have been my idols since 2003. I wouldn't bear to see her getting hurt.